Hello fellow artists, so I'm planning on doing a kiss close however the girl I'm targeting has said that she likes to takes things slow and not into the whole "lovey dubby touchy feeling stuff". She texted me this the day after we briefly went out and I went to simply hug her goodbye; she said she doesn't like to give out hugs to someone she's just met. I played it cool and brushed it off as if it was nothing. A week later we meet again and at the end of the night I walk out without indicating interest and she walks up and gives me a hug.

So she is very very slow, but the question is if this a sh*t test to get me to kiss close next time I see her? Or if I should really take it slow and build kino every time I go out with her?

This is for day game. If you're doing night game, you can escalate your kino at a faster pace.

• 1. High five when she says something cute.
  
  2. High five with the next opportunity but this time interlace your fingers with hers. Eject after 2 seconds.
  
  3. When she's saying something emotional, briefly touch her hand then eject after 1 second.
  
  4. When she says something cute, high five, interlace your fingers with hers and hold her hand. Eject after 3 seconds.
  
  5. Tag her wrist when you lead her to a chair or place. Say come. If she doesn't remove your hand. Eject after 5 seconds.
  
  6. Tap her shoulder briefly when you want to say something. Eject after 1 second.
  
  7. Place your palm on top of her palm when you're saying something exciting. Eject after 7 seconds.
  
  8. Hold her hand when she's smiling. Eject after 10 seconds.
  
  9. When she initiates holding your hand, hold it for a minute or so.
  
  10. When she hugs you, place your hand at the small of her back just above her ass. Don't grab her ass. Pull her closer to you and whisper in her ear. "I have a secret to tell you. But I'll say it later."
  
  11. When she play punches you on the arm, run after her. She'll run. Chase her.
  
  12. Say, "There's something in your eye. I'll get it."
  
  13. When she closes her eyes, kiss her.

Try not to look at your hand when doing the kino. The principle is to let her experience different kinds of light touches and make her comfortable with your touch.

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dude she likes you.

by the way you're describing her, i'm pretty sure you're still kinda young, maybe high school?

i'm 19 and if I were to meet a girl that doesn't hug, i'd crack up laughing.

i'm pretty sure at this point you can go in for the kiss BUT if she tries denying it, she'll forgive you and still keep on talking to you/she'll still be interested in you & you'll be able to go for it again a few days/weeks later when you guys have gotten closer.

so I say you have nothing to lose & go for it.

the thing that stood out for me the most was when you were going to walk off but she hugged you, so that means she's DEFINITELY interested in you.

go for it!

Good points, thanks!