How do you do you kiss close? I'm not talking set up for a KC, I'm talking how do you know it would be okay with her? Just kiss her and forget what she thinks (although honestly she'd be wanting it a bit if you've spat some game and she's been talking to you all night) but how do you know she isn't gonna flip out?

I get the assertion thing, but I guess I "lack" the confidence to just swoop in for a kiss w/o getting the vibe she totally wants it.

Is that a risk you just have to take?

you have to be more detailed in your situation also, where exactly are you gonna go in for the kiss and how well do you know her if you talk to her at all?

in general, honestly man fuck what she thinks, if you live with that mentality of 'I wonder what that person is going to think about me', just forget it and go for it.

If you never try, it'll never happen. If you try, you have a good possibility an outcome will go in your favor.

I can tell you a little story though that happened the other day that might tell you a little something..
the other day at a big school event at the club, i was dancing with one of the hottest chicks at the club and everyone was up on my jock about her just staring at us dance, it was a bit weird but i just kept on dancing. I went in for a kiss and she moved away and everyone saw what happened but she kept on dancing with me. Now the next day at school some people told me like hey I heard you got denied a kiss (fucking nosy ass people), and i didn't deny it but that girl hit me up a few days after telling me she wanted to meet up. Those people who told me I got denied didn't get ANY from any girls so I don't see why they should be saying anything.

If you don't try, you'll never succeed.

I'm not in any particular situation... But I was reading some threads and Kc and kino came up an I realized those two things are my biggest deficiencies. I use to work on openers and text game a lot but the lack of kino and risk taking kinda got me friend zoned often.

Gotta work on that.