I just went to my first club last week. I didn't do anything, just got immersed in the scene and got a feel for things. Oddly enough despite my nerves about going to a club now I'm pretty excited to go back and start gaming.

Anyways, I was curious..what are some good ways to run club game if you figure a girl is at the very least somewhat attracted to you?

I was thinking go direct, like just approach a pair of girls or maybe a group and try to lead them on the dance floor. I don't know much moves(but the ones I do know are sick) but I figure I can move with the beat and pull off a sick looking move every now and then to keep the interest level peaked.

Another I was thinking was saying "wanna buy each other shots" and regardless of whether they do or not I'm in the group and can start gaming.

Also, I never danced with a girl before. Would it be considered normal to touch her with your hands alot from the get-go while dancing or just move your body against hers?(I'm talking hip hop music playing)

Also, if I approach a girl whos somewhat interested in me on the patio or whatever how much kino should I initiate from the start and what should I talk about? Should I just flat out hit on them verbally or would that be bad? I'm not really sure how girls in this scene are. Thanks!

hmm i dont know if is good to buy drinks for a woman i gues she will either think that u are trying to make her drunk or she will think that u have low value because u offering drinks to a girl just so she stays with u for a little conversetion acording to to mystery it is a verry bad idea to offer drinks to girls its an DOL demonstration of lower value)in his eyes

unfonitly SPAM im not able to open a set so i cannot give u much advice
but i wish you luck man =)

My normal opener when I have eye contact before is to smile and say "having a good time?" and give a thumbs up, I do this with body language like I'm about to continue walking, but I slow as I'm near her obviously.

Most of the time the girl will smile and nod or say yes, sometimes they will answer and comment about the music or crowd, rarely do they blow me out, that would make them look lame and a buzzkill.

If she's with a group I'll say "what's the occasion?"

If the girl is alone i'll tease her like "why are you by yourself don't you have any friends?" I only tried this 3 times and I crashed n burned the first time on a 9, was a little too direct after I opened. All 3 times the girls smiled though after opening.

Now I hear about some of the gurus being ultra-alpha and direct/sexual and pulling girls easily. I almost always use strong alpha body language and get eye contact but then i'll open indirectly.

Not sure about the "wanna buy each other shots" line, especially if you just started the chat. But if you can make it a game, go for it. There's some drinking routines i've seen around.

As far as dancing, hip hop music is mostly grinding or freaking face-to-face. Most girls are cool with touching hands/waists/arms. If she starts acting really horny, giving you intense EC, you can move towards tits/ass just be careful. Sometimes they'll move my hands away from their chest, when they do I usually back off and start showing a little disinterest, sometimes I'll just slow/stop and talk to my friends behind me to show I'm not needy.

So you can go direct if you get eye contact/smiling before you open. Last time I went direct was at a club in Vegas, I had VIP though and we had a few hot pivots (girls) in our group so thats big-time automatic DHV. I was getting EC from a 9 on the floor, I just walked down, started eye-fucking her, grabbed her hand, and pulled her 3 friends up to my table.

Thanks guys! That's some solid advice RedCali I'll probably observe people dancing next time to get more of a feel for what I should be doing, but I intend on making a splash pretty quickly.

Also, great opener as well I'm gonna have to try that one out.

What would you usually follow up with though? The main reason I think I'm having anxiety about approaching is lack of what I should talk about in an environment such as this. Since I don't have much conversational experience with approaching strangers I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to steer the conversation towards a personal topic and really connect with her.

mrmatt-dancefloor-club-game-vt128197.html?highlight=

No prob.

_________________
Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Buying women drinks at a club will immediately devalue you. For one, that is something AFCs do because they have no game, and you don't want to be put in that category. Additionally, some women deliberately flirt with guys to get drinks knowing they'll never give it up to that guy, and that is definitely another category you don't want to be in. Other women may use it as a shit test.

totally agree wit them guys buying drinks for women sends bad signals, even if they ask me ta buy them one i say YOU should buy me a drink, it shifts the power to you then. You should try just opening a set by yourself first like small groups in bars (clubs a bit noisy ) and use openers that come of as friendly, cool and intuative. I sometimes open a set wit '' hey my friend and I having this argument about who is better looking rihana or beyonce ? wat's ya think ? '' sometimes they then argue among themselves who is better and start conversations about them in which you can join in its not the same old hey hows your night, were ya from, wat do ya do rabble, its interesting and fun cause were i live no one does stuff like wen trying ta talk ta women. There tons ya can make and create too that get women talking and make you comfortable around you. However im only at that stage yet were i get only numbers some i dont even remember gettin lol so anything beyond that is over my head for now. But dude set yourself a goal ta open a set and it feels so rewarding wen you intergrate into a group of strangers and become a part of the group

Great stuff! Thanks for the link, I feel I understand the scene a little bit better now. Looks like I won't be buying anyone but myself a drink