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Your never going to fuck 85% of the women you approach. Sorry but PU is a numbers game. This is why you should stop following Mystery Method.... its making you delusional. I used to be the same way.
Warped, you are one confusing dude, one moment I think damn this guy knows his shit, he is a PUA. Then you make a statement like this ^^^^ You post on another thread about quality men, and how women complain about the lack of them, you post on other threads about creating a great image, dress well, work out, smell nice...all stuff that is completely accurate, the better image you create the more successful you will be. Then on another thread you pin point what the typical DTF women is in a night club. I've seen a photo of you and yes you are one good looking dude, so with all the post you have made about style, posture and image. I have an image of you being a "quality man" A smooth operator. All that being said, you still see 85% as delusional?

Are you telling me WARPED! that you see pick up as just a numbers game? Are you telling me you worked that hard on creating an image of a quality man, yet you are still approaching random women, are you telling me you haven't created enough of an image to have women approach you? Are you telling me you haven't the ability to pre-screen and identify the women that are showing interest in you before you approach? To think 85% of approachable women are not attainable is to tell me you are not a true player, and tells me you are still just randomly approaching women, without getting any reads. A true pick up artist does have an incredibly high ratio, but not just because he is smooth and looks the part, but because he can identify the appropriate women. A true pick up artist takes pride in having an extremely high ratio. Just because the woman show's interest initially does not mean she is 100% DTF but that's where the game comes in. It's still up to a person to talk her panties off, but if you are working the appropriate women, it sure is a hell of a lot easier.

You mock the OP and call him delusional, but I'll tell you this much, it is his desire to become an artist rather then a pick up monkey, that will one day make him a true player.
Could you PM the link to where you seen my picture? I wasn't aware I had my picture anywhere on any public sites. Thanks.

Also, people define "numbers game" differently. I think that when a lot of people hear me talk about it being a numbers game they have an image in their mind of a guy approaching a ton of women and just trying his luck until he gets lucky enough to find a girl willing to fuck him. Yeah, that is technically a numbers game too but not what im talking about.

Lets pretend that a guy have an 50% cold approach to fuck close ratio. That basically means that on average he has to approach 2 chicks to get laid. Make sense? Therefore his "number" is two and know he knows how many women he has to approach on average before he gets laid. He is still playing a numbers game but his number is just really small.

Playing the "numbers game" is all about knowing your "magic number." Your magic number is the amount of women you have to approach on average before you get laid.

Lets say your magic number is 5. This means that over the long run, your average meet to fuck ratio is 1/5 meaning on average you fuck 1 chick for every five you approach. When you get to the club you now just play the numbers because you know that your probably gonna have to approach around 5 chicks.

Of course, sometimes you end up fucking the first chick you approach, sometimes you have a bad night or having shitty luck and it ends up being the 10th chick you approach. The next night maybe its the 3ed chick you aprpoach and the night after that its the 5th and then the next night the 8th and then the night after that its the 2ed...so on and so forth. Lets just say that it averages out to 1/5.

No man on this planet is going to be able to walk into a club and consistently fuck 85% of the women he approaches. Thats would be better than 1/2 and its simply not going to happen. Sure, some nights you will fuck the first chick you approach, but some nights it will be the 5th, 6th, 7th, so on...

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Man. Am I tired of this old story.

Every once in a while there is a "battle of the methods". Normally it is Mystery method against "naturals".

Naturals: Mystery method users are so scary and scripted. It is weird.
Mystery method: You guys arent naturals, you are just stupid.

There, that is what the discussion is gonna sound like.

The worst thing a PUA can do is to get stuck in one method and basically swear allegiance to it. Which is what a lot of PUAs do. Defining themselves based on what method they like best. Frankly, all of the methods do the same thing. They get you through the problems you have, the barriers you have to break in order to go where you need to be. The only difference is that people have different problems and need different kind of help. Thats why we have different methods. In the end, the best thing you can do is to just stop following a method and replace it with your own version.

Telling people to change methods just because you yourself prefer another method just shows that you have a problem understanding other people and put yourself in their shoes.

Pissing all over the methods others prefer also means disrespecting their background and their own personal problems. It isnt nice.

This forum could be so awesome if people would start to see similarities instead of differences. We could all benefit from listening to people who have a different point of view, this gets you out of your little bubble and broadens your horizons. Plus the ones we learn the most from are people who disagree with us and not people who agree with everything we say.

So swallow your pride and stop this "Im right and everybody else are wrong" attitude.


^^^^^ That! Ezo is the man!

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Playing the "numbers game" is all about knowing your "magic number." Your magic number is the amount of women you have to approach on average before you get laid.
^ that is the numbers game

Playing the numbers game is not going for example in a club from girl to girl to girl, getting rejected till you find that right girl... That projects desperation, and loser status...


A lot of you take this forum, the members, pick up methods and posts too serious almost cult like, exhibit look at "stlear post", you guys should loosen up this shit! ain't rocket science....

85% can be achieved by a dude like sex addict since he approaches the ladies he identify base on experience, analysis etc... That are gonna close...Not by going to random women(key point)... This is so funny all of you are arguing and saying the same thing, but you guys don't know it...

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Your never going to fuck 85% of the women you approach. Sorry but PU is a numbers game. This is why you should stop following Mystery Method.... its making you delusional. I used to be the same way.
Warped, you are one confusing dude, one moment I think damn this guy knows his shit, he is a PUA. Then you make a statement like this ^^^^ You post on another thread about quality men, and how women complain about the lack of them, you post on other threads about creating a great image, dress well, work out, smell nice...all stuff that is completely accurate, the better image you create the more successful you will be. Then on another thread you pin point what the typical DTF women is in a night club. I've seen a photo of you and yes you are one good looking dude, so with all the post you have made about style, posture and image. I have an image of you being a "quality man" A smooth operator. All that being said, you still see 85% as delusional?

Are you telling me WARPED! that you see pick up as just a numbers game? Are you telling me you worked that hard on creating an image of a quality man, yet you are still approaching random women, are you telling me you haven't created enough of an image to have women approach you? Are you telling me you haven't the ability to pre-screen and identify the women that are showing interest in you before you approach? To think 85% of approachable women are not attainable is to tell me you are not a true player, and tells me you are still just randomly approaching women, without getting any reads. A true pick up artist does have an incredibly high ratio, but not just because he is smooth and looks the part, but because he can identify the appropriate women. A true pick up artist takes pride in having an extremely high ratio. Just because the woman show's interest initially does not mean she is 100% DTF but that's where the game comes in. It's still up to a person to talk her panties off, but if you are working the appropriate women, it sure is a hell of a lot easier.

You mock the OP and call him delusional, but I'll tell you this much, it is his desire to become an artist rather then a pick up monkey, that will one day make him a true player.
Could you PM the link to where you seen my picture? I wasn't aware I had my picture anywhere on any public sites. Thanks.

Also, people define "numbers game" differently. I think that when a lot of people hear me talk about it being a numbers game they have an image in their mind of a guy approaching a ton of women and just trying his luck until he gets lucky enough to find a girl willing to fuck him. Yeah, that is technically a numbers game too but not what im talking about.

Lets pretend that a guy have an 50% cold approach to fuck close ratio. That basically means that on average he has to approach 2 chicks to get laid. Make sense? Therefore his "number" is two and know he knows how many women he has to approach on average before he gets laid. He is still playing a numbers game but his number is just really small.

Playing the "numbers game" is all about knowing your "magic number." Your magic number is the amount of women you have to approach on average before you get laid.

Lets say your magic number is 5. This means that over the long run, your average meet to fuck ratio is 1/5 meaning on average you fuck 1 chick for every five you approach. When you get to the club you now just play the numbers because you know that your probably gonna have to approach around 5 chicks.

Of course, sometimes you end up fucking the first chick you approach, sometimes you have a bad night or having shitty luck and it ends up being the 10th chick you approach. The next night maybe its the 3ed chick you aprpoach and the night after that its the 5th and then the next night the 8th and then the night after that its the 2ed...so on and so forth. Lets just say that it averages out to 1/5.

No man on this planet is going to be able to walk into a club and consistently fuck 85% of the women he approaches. Thats would be better than 1/2 and its simply not going to happen. Sure, some nights you will fuck the first chick you approach, but some nights it will be the 5th, 6th, 7th, so on...
I guarantee you Mystery, Matador, and some of his other posse have 85%+ ratio. If they are looking to fuck, they will get at least ONE fuck that night, if not more. Like sexaddict said, it's all about reading girls in the room and spotting out the ones who are willing to do xyz, and then executing the xyz. Matador = 2 bj's in 30 minutes. That's part of his bootcamp! Apparently he did it with a 100% success rate, and the dude in the bootcamp failed but he got a make out or something. Point is, it is possible if you use your smarts.


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Both Tyga and warpless are right if fused together, but neither is 100% right.

If you just go for any girl who becomes attracted to you early on then yes you will get laid more and increase your numbers and if that's just what you want then read no further.

If you want to improve your pick up skills, get the hb9-10 who seems like a total bitch and turn her around to like you and want to be with you, then your pua and social skills will improve but you will waste more time and get laid less.

It mostly depends what your end goal is. To fuck a lot? to fall in love with the perfect girl for you? to just challenge yourself and become the best pua you can be? Depending on what you want, you will have to adjust your goals accordingly.

A part of me wants to improve my seduction skills, become really good at sex and experience different women so I will take some time, probably a few months and follow warpless, stelar's, skills, type of methods. I'm sure it will improve my confidence a lot, have something to back me up in case people talk shit in a social circle (I know a bit immature and egotistical but it helps dealing with haters or people that talk shit and it's a huge DHV in not only social circle but also in networking since 90% of males in NA want to get laid a lot).

Another part of me wants to be a really good conversationalist that amaze women just by speaking. I want to be able to engage women's emotions and read them well. I want to use what little information I get from their words and body to my advantage. When I go out on a date, I want it to be nothing short of amazing and when I find a girl I really care about, I want to get her hooked, know how to mind fuck her if neccessary, have great control of my emotions and never fall into beta behaviour. All this and more. You can see where I'm getting at with this. These are the reasons I choose to be a PUA.

Sly this is the problem you should be able to do both.... Here is the difference i believe on doing the second part after getting physical, due to my circumstances and my personal goal and objectives, must methods do the second part and then the first part... But again dude, you are mistaken you should be able to do both, specially if you want to experience meaningful relationships in the future with women.

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Hotdamn! So I played the first clip of the $1000 revelation DVD set from Venusian Arts. (Pocket change) Matador comes up and says something I can relate to this thread.

Women like guys who have balls. Not balls with stupidity, but balls with intelligence.


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I know what you're saying bro, first I plan to get more experience with different girls and aim to fuck them. No relationships (unless an amazing girl can persuade me).

After I'm confident in my seduction and sex skills, I will work on my PUA skills, aka converting hard targets to become attracted. Handle amogs and orbiters very well and pass all shit test with flying colours.

When I want to find the perfect girl for me, I will aim to attract her, mind fuck her a bit and of course sleep with her within the first week of contact. I know if you don't fuck a girl soon, she will have more power and the relationship just gets harder. That's when I will combine both aspects so I can be a true PUA instead of a player that just gets laid a lot.


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As 60 said: Guys don’t escalate quickly because they want to make 100% sure she is attracted first. They view eye contact, touching and moving closer as something you only do if you’re sure it will work. While they were waiting around looking for indicators of interest, she already put them in the friend zone.

Yes guys and especially Sexaddict, most people on here must learn to find the ones that are DTF as your success is almost guaranteed, therefore improving your ratio. BUT the problem is that most guys do the WRONG type of screening. They are screening WITHOUT escalating.

EVERYTHING IS ABOUT BALANCE.

YOU MUST BE SMOOTH IN A BALLSY WAY.

YOU MUST TRY TO BE A TRUE PLAYER WITHOUT PUTTING A LOT OF PRESSURE ON YOURSELF. STRIVE TO BECOME THE BEST YOU CAN, BUT THE KEY IS TO NOT TELL YOURSELF YOU ARE GOOD. OLYMPIC ATHLETES ALWAYS THINK THEY SUCK. KAI GREENE THE PRO BODYBUILDER GETS ASKED HOW MUCH HE CAN BENCH. HIS RESPONSE IS, "NOT ENOUGH". YOU SUCK WITH WOMEN. HOW MANY LAYS DO YOU RECEIVE? "NOT ENOUGH."

PICK-UP IS BOTH AN ART AND A NUMBERS GAME. YOU MUST COMBINE BOTH. YOU MUST MOVE ON TO DIFFERENT WOMEN CONSTANTLY TO BE EFFICIENT AND SCREEN. ON THE LATTER, EACH INDIVIDUAL INTERACTION CALLS UPON YOUR FINESSE OR SKILL/EXPERIENCE.

HAVING "GAME" WILL DEFINITELY IMPROVE YOUR SUCCESS DRASTICALLY. BUT DO NOT EXPECT THAT YOU CAN PICK UP ANYONE. NOT EVEN CELEBRITIES OR ROCK STARS CAN GET WHAT THEY WANT.

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@Ezo With all the respect, your post is great but it didn't save the thread...

And why do you people repeat yourselves...i don't post i mostly read...but this is not normal anymore... You get results with your game? OK! GOOD! Somebody else has something ,,new'' and it works. GREAT ! GOOD!

Now tell me how to seduce a girl without negging? I tease her a bit, but i am not the best neg person. I watched Don Juan DeMarco and i saw the scene in restaurant. I think this is what 60YOC does too. But i am 19 and i somehow don't believe that i can fuck a girl that easy. I live with parents and bla bla bla...I don't really understand what does it mean to be a ,,Man''. Any thoughts?


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As 60 said: Guys don’t escalate quickly because they want to make 100% sure she is attracted first. They view eye contact, touching and moving closer as something you only do if you’re sure it will work. While they were waiting around looking for indicators of interest, she already put them in the friend zone.
This is another problem I have with 60. He makes it bad to be in the friend zone. Fact is that in order to get a girlfriend or hook up, 95% of the time, you have to become the girls friend first. Source: Women everywhere.

$50 says that Chief doesn't really believe 60YOC is the best method, but they worked out some sort of deal so 60 could be in his sig.


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This is another problem I have with 60. He makes it bad to be in the friend zone. Fact is that in order to get a girlfriend or hook up, 95% of the time, you have to become the girls friend first. Source: Women everywhere.
What you just said is quite possibly the dumbest thing ever. Also, you have ONE lay... stop pretending you know anything. If you spent as much time out meeting women as you did being a KJ on here you might actually be decent.
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$50 says that Chief doesn't really believe 60YOC is the best method, but they worked out some sort of deal so 60 could be in his sig.
lol, Chief has been going on and on and on and on and on about 60 way before he ever put 60 in his sig.

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This is another problem I have with 60. He makes it bad to be in the friend zone. Fact is that in order to get a girlfriend or hook up, 95% of the time, you have to become the girls friend first. Source: Women everywhere.
What you just said is quite possibly the dumbest thing ever. Also, you have ONE lay... stop pretending you know anything. If you spent as much time out meeting women as you did being a KJ on here you might actually be decent.
Could please elaborate on why that is dumb?


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This is another problem I have with 60. He makes it bad to be in the friend zone. Fact is that in order to get a girlfriend or hook up, 95% of the time, you have to become the girls friend first. Source: Women everywhere.
What you just said is quite possibly the dumbest thing ever. Also, you have ONE lay... stop pretending you know anything. If you spent as much time out meeting women as you did being a KJ on here you might actually be decent.
Could please elaborate on why that is dumb?
If your goal is to fuck a woman, it easier to accomplish that if she sees you as a lover rather than a friend.

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What you just said is quite possibly the dumbest thing ever. Also, you have ONE lay... stop pretending you know anything. If you spent as much time out meeting women as you did being a KJ on here you might actually be decent.
Could please elaborate on why that is dumb?
If your goal is to fuck a woman, it easier to accomplish that if she sees you as a lover rather than a friend.
Are these relationships really that exclusive of each-other?


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I`ve read a lot of shit over time, and with this subject I did "HAD ENOUGH", and some more after that.

But I think we are losing the point here:

Let`s say it`s in fact a numbers game. Is that all? You pretend me to go out and play some game simply becouse it`s just the way things work?
Nah, I won`t do it.

Let`s say it`s an art. Every single approach I should make after practicing for years should be a close.
Is that what we aim for? A fuck? Girls who are down to fuck us and making us be the ones THEY chose?

To me both extremes are kinda pressuring, deffinitely something I didn`t signed for.
I believe pick up it`s an art, but rather than being surrounded by guys who can teach us, they get to a point were all good men arrives if they finally get it: getting over this.

In my case I don`t need to lay as many girls as my time allows me, actually I`d rather lay a few.

If you allow me, I`m going to ask you guys to structure for me the steps you should take in order to become a real man in life.

Becouse honestly, after so many years I don`t know where this is going.

Is it having sex and building confidence first? Followed by learning to game after?
Is it the other way around? Should you have tight inner game and then start on PUA? Or is it that after becoming a PUA you finally manage to have epic inner game?

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As 60 said: Guys don’t escalate quickly because they want to make 100% sure she is attracted first. They view eye contact, touching and moving closer as something you only do if you’re sure it will work. While they were waiting around looking for indicators of interest, she already put them in the friend zone.
This is another problem I have with 60. He makes it bad to be in the friend zone. Fact is that in order to get a girlfriend or hook up, 95% of the time, you have to become the girls friend first. Source: Women everywhere.

$50 says that Chief doesn't really believe 60YOC is the best method, but they worked out some sort of deal so 60 could be in his sig.

^ wowow! dude delete or edit this fast, this is the weakest shit i ever heard, friendzone=dead zone, if you go to the friend zone you will stay there for ever... Worst situation for anybody to be in is the dreaded "friend zone"

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