ok, so I'm studying abroad right now in Mexico and there's a couple of girls at my university that i'd kinda been craving getting in bed.

the girls act like they are angels in public but once you get to know them in private they can be dtf.

anywaays, i've been told i'm one of the best looking guys in the career and my friends hve even told me that they are positive that any girl would hook up with me from our career, I'm guessing from the things they say behind my back.

Now, the game in mexico is kinda different from the U.S., the university girls here still act like little high school girls back home and fall in love quickly/care too much.

I need to find out how to get some of these girls in bed by avoiding a relationship, which I know is what almost all these mexican girls want, but I don't. i'm not sure how DTF these girls are without being in a relationship . How should I act with the girls I want to f-close but I don't want anything serious with?

need some advice please! thank you!

All i date is latin girls, so I like to think this is my specialty lol and I've been in 2 f-buddy/fwb relationships. It's true some mexican citizens might see you as a one-way ticket to US citizenship and trophy wife status. Latin culture embraces sexuality, so don't doubt alot of these girls would be down for ONS or even being F-buddies.

I would basically avoid going deep into emotional convo, and kick up the cocky&funny approach, alpha attitude, sexual body language. Clubs would be the obvious venue. If she initiates deep convo or brings up any exclusivity stuff, you can either tell the truth what you want or sidestep with C&F. What the latter does is maintain her attraction into you while basically bypassing the emotional intimacy.

You could just straight play these girls and act as the gringo with money looking for a trophy and then toss them, but I don't think you want a bunch of latinas pissed off at you, n I'm being serious..

Simple - Lie

the thing is that when I go to a club in Mexico (to the high-class end clubs) , the girls are RIDICULOUSLY hard to approach , 99% have their bitch-shield up.

it is WAY easier to score chicks at your average american club than a mexican high-end club I'm pretty sure.

I'm studying in probably one of the richest cities in mexico where every other person drives a mercedes/bmw , there's hot ass MILFS with husbands you probably don't want to mess with, the light-colored mexicans here all think they are the shit , a lot of spoiled children etc. etc.. it's different from your average mexican city .

Club game is extremely hard in this city if it's about going up to girls that don't know you. I've been to other mexican cities like puerto vallarta and tijuana and it is definitely way easier in those cities.

So realistically speaking, i'd probably have to know a girl before hooking up with her here unless I have good luck I think (or mutual friends).

I hate this city for these reasons, I'm tired of the "want something serious" bullshit and just want to have fun you know? but the girls here don't want to seem like sluts because all they care about here is their status in the city and how others perceive them.

fuck my life. ahah

You either take some risks or you won't get anything. Unless you were living in some country with insane cultural beliefs and laws, you shouldn't have much problem picking something where you are. Go to a college party, and be more bold when you are in the club. Both places are more or less THE places to have some action with a girl without worrying about her wanting long time dating. Seriously, women also want some action without dating too. If what you said is true about women there then every single one of them is married already, which i seriously doubt is the case.

You should do some reading on club game. Personally that's not my favorite simply because I don't club often, all my party friends are gone to out of town UC's I just don't have time.

People have mixed feelings on it but maybe you could try peacocking in the club. Mystery and Style seemed to have alot of success with it. IMO if you're competition is a bunch of young, cocky rich guys, that's the only way to separate yourself.

lead the way to sex, manage their expectations

just get them alone and have sex with them, if they set out their expectations for a relationship, manage them, just be honest about what you want, they either take it or leave it, but if you are as good looking as you say it won't matter, alot of girls will still want to hookup with you, just don't be needy about it and once the offer is on the table it will always be in the back of their minds (if the interest is there)

alot of girls like to try to change guys and love a challenge, you not wanting to commit is a challenge, just don't worry about it

What pump said. Also, follow the FB rules: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... rules.html

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Wolfwoodd's link is money, those are the boundaries I've encountered and noticed in different types of relationships. There's different goal's with women, f-buddies, fwb, open relationships or exclusive long term relationships. You're picking F-buddies, so you're approach is pump up the attraction, physical contact and create that sexual tension and energy.

Sub-communicating your expectations works better imo then sitting and having the chat about your relationship