So if a girl and you are planning to hangout together and go to the movies, is this a certified date? Its weird because she hasn't really showed a ton of interest before but she texted me a couple days ago and has been semi-flirty over text so i take both of them as IOI's

Would it be an extreme "no no" to be blunt and straight up ask her if its a date? or should i "alpha" up and go in assuming its a date and escalate and just DFAG

How did it get brought up?

i dont remember exactly but one of us offered to hangout and we planned to tan together and hangout near her pool, but since i work we are gonna do movies after and maybe something after

Dude just roll with it, show your personality and yes be C&F playful and make some harmless physical contact. Sounds like you're really young, I wouldn't out of the blue ask "so is this a date?"

Just don't be the obnoxious, annoying guy, trying to constantly hit on her while you're watching the movie

Take it as a date and escalate from there, things might go further and they might not. End of the day you're not losing anything!

Whether it's a date or not depends on how you conduct the evening. You're the man, you take the lead.

Don't ask her if it's a date, that will kill it, by saying the word "date" it changes everything. Girls see the word date and marriage in the same story line. Just the word "date" alone will change the entire dynamics of your evening. People especially women have a vision of what a perfect date should be, it has been implanted in their minds by family, friends, movies....they will always have an ideal date in their heads, if you don't live up to that ideal, you're already up shits creek.

Don't ever use the word date. EVER!! Even if you really like this girl and want her to be your GF. It is wise to stay away from the unconscious pressures that word can create. Even women will act completely different, with the pressure of that word.

Dude don't ever use that word again, unless she brings it up. Even then try to make it " hang out" rather then "date"

See it as an encounter, you will know her level of interest by how the evening goes, not by using the word date. Rate her interest after you hang out, not before.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Ya thats why I use the word "hang out" , i just wanted to make sure its a no-no

you guys are very helpful, thanks so much! ill tell you how it goes

dont define it

go out have fun
she'll wanna see u again

never call it a date or try to call her your gf . let her push for that stuff. you just be you kino escalate and then let her pursue the serious stuff.