i met her at a club just askd for her number made a bunch of comments prolly talked to her less than 3 mins. i texted her a few days after askin if she wanted to hang out but she was busy with school. tried to ask her again n she sed she wasnt going out that night because she had an assignment to work on n sed school gets busy towards the end.

what should i do move on to the next or try again in a week or too.

she responds to all my msgs hasnt ignored me yet lol.

Plan something for early on in the day and keep it short.

I hope that you're not texting girls in the same manner that you're posting on here. Bad grammar and incorrect spelling can straight up destroy your set with a quality woman. It conveys laziness and that is certainly not attractive. Just be conscience of it and watch your game drastically increase.

It might just be the case that she's legitimately busy. Let it pan out and keep an eye on her.

alright im going to wait a week or 2 n then ill post back on here on what happens.

both, why on earth do you feel the need to only be hitting up 1 girl at a time?, get more numbers as often as possible, more of this, the more she flakes, the less you try with her, eventually if she is a big time waster, just contact her once every 2 weeks, you never know if she is interested in meeting you, but she has a bf or something else going on in her life that prevents her from being available to you, all you want to do, is avoid looking desperate to her and stay persistant

worse that will happen with this is you make texting buddies, and can practise texting

she's the only number i got at the moment that I'm interested in but when i go out I'm always on the hunt unless I'm too wasted lol

get out asap, only having 1 number can seriously fuck you up and lead to oneitis, and comming off as needy, if she is your only option, you will treat her like she is your only option

Good advice.

Also when you offer something, try to give an offer she cannot refuse...like inviting her to a party or to go see some live music.

If she rejects you, don't even respond to her rejection text for a few days. It shows you don't care and makes it easy to invite her to something else later (pretending like you forgot that she rejected you last time).

truth is i don't really care what this girl has to say I'm not expecting much just practicing lol but if she's down that wud be niceee. and i had oneitis with the girl before this so i don't think i can get that again lol

as long as you have a scarcity of options, you will get oneitis over and over and over, for all the girls you invest yourself into, you will continue to try to get that ''one girl'' over and over, and when you can de-tach yourself from the need to get her you can escalate without fear of losing her because you have other options to go back on, and if she rejects you, you won't care, but if you don't have other options, it is more likely you become needy for her, and don't want to ''fuck it up'' because she is all you have, and you need it to work, this usually leads guys into oneitis and doing weird ass shit to get a girl to like them, like supplication, and randomly being a dick at inappropriate times to try and get reactions from the girl

as soon as you can remain indifferent to an outcome and want your target but not need her, you will be in a better place, you can escalate to your goal, and if you hit a road block, instead of fixing the problems, just go out and find new girls that don't offer such problems

it's never about getting a specific girl, it is about finding a cool girl and having sex with her, working on the process of getting laid, not being attached to a specific out outcome with one girl (but still working towards that outcome)

as soon as you need it from a girl, it is gonna fuck you up

alright so i sent a txt today, i askd if she was join clubbing on weekend n she said she has a friends bday, her responses were short and she didn't ask me any questions but just answered mine so i ended the condo after i got a lol. what shud i do now.

This set has gone stale. Let it be and start some new sets.