Hi everyone,

This is my first post on this forum, and yes I did make my account just for this question. I do not think this question and situation has ever been posted and dealt with. (lmk if it has though...I would love to read about it)

I am in a co-ed(Guys and Girls) Fraternity in Penn State University. We have a really intense Pledging Process that is going to be over in 2 weeks.

One of the girls that I am Pledging is also really hot. The problem is that I can't really flirt with her, because I have to do my job as a Brother by being an asshole to her.

I have gotten confirmations from multiple people telling me that this girl likes me. She even gives me eye contact every time I see her.

My question is how can I show her that I am interested without other people noticing? Any subtle flirting tips? This way as soon as she crosses she'll immediately know whats up

Thanks in advance

ur a pussy who cares who notices so long as she likes u

ur lack of confidence will invariably turn her off if u arent careful

Here's something cute I think she may like.

Write her a small note telling her you like her. That way no one has to know.

An even cheesier way(In my opinion) would be send her a mail that arrive the day the thingy is over. Sorry I don't know what 'Pledging' means. Looked it up it just told me it's something you can't do...

Find out how long it takes your local delivery of a letter takes. If possible, tell them to date it earlier(A week before the thing is over) then mail it so it arrive the day it's over. She'll get the letter, open it and it would be dated a week before this. I have a feeling that she'll feel really cool you went though that distance to do that. Beside, no one sends letters nowadays so it'll be extra special to her and something she may not forget. Even if she's not into you in the end. She may recommend her hot girlfriends to you. Telling them the cool thing you did for her.

Any PUA could verify if this would work? Or even logical?

I appreciate the criticism, but I would have to respectfully disagree...I can't show interest in a Pledge because it is against my entire Fraternal code.

The way it is now, I HAVE to pretend to hate her, our ritual is to mentally haze our Pledges...I was wondering if there was a way to give her subconscious hints to make her realize that I want her.

I think a letter would be too obvious and I know shes not gonna check her mailbox the day she crosses hahahaha. Good idea tho

+1.

Can you get someone else to haze her? Like, if you split up the pledges into groups? Then you can tell her what you want right now.

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I cant...it doesn't work that way. Our entire Brotherhood has to "haze" all the pledges as a whole. Think of the entire process as a war; Brothers against Pledges. I think im just gonna be a bigger dick to her...im pretty sure she likes that haha

Just make some of the hazing sexually/intimately charged so she knows what to expect in the future . Being a dick for the sake of being a dick will only get you so far.

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It's pretty simple. Be a dick for another two weeks. But keep up the eye contact and lots of kino. She know ls you have to be an asshole anyway.

Then after the pledge. Make your move

It sounds like she 'likes' you 'cause you're an asshole to her, unless she knew you before this hazing thing?

If she already likes you, or is interested in you, you can be sure that she read into everything you do. So maybe do little things like, check her out (like from head to toe) when you see her and smile at her but don't treat her any differently than you do now.

If you don't wanna do the smile because you think it breaks your fraternal code or whatever, then leave that out?
cheers

If I were you, I'd isolate her and be direct an and honest. Something like

You: can I tell you somthing random?
Her: yes
You: Im supposed to be a Dick to you for the next 2 Weeks, but If Im too hard on you, you wont want to sleep with me later.
Her: blah blah blah
You: I'm gonna mess you up hard in public so ready for that. Behind closed doors though, Ill make up for it bigtime.
Her: blah blah blah
You: lets just keep this our little secret, can you handle that?
Her: blah blah blah
You: this is against all rules and highly top secret! Pinky swear?
Her: blah

Now reel her in and start making out. This would be ideal on so many levels.

As a member of my schoo's Greek life, I can tell you hazing is the dumbest fucking concept I ever heard. Skip the "tradition" bs and just talk to her.

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whoaa I like this 1...Takes a lot of guts, but I think I may wanna try something resembling this...problem is that shes a fucking chatter mouth lol..oh well