Hi all. I'm 25, and single. I consider myself to be pretty outgoing. I am a modest guy, hate talking about myself...but I guess im quite attractive, or so I've been told before. Anyways, my problem is this...

Approaching Women I've never met.

Either at a bar/club whatever, I just cannot do it...

First, I assess them. I look at them and ask myself, am I good enough for her? Majority of the time, the answer is no. So that is what stops me dead in my tracks before even considering my next option.

If I assess them and think I have a chance, then the next step is...approaching them, and coming up with that all important ice breaker. Ok, introduce myself, offer them a drink. Then I could end up talking nonsense and end up blowing it. The key is to ask about them I know...

But how do you guys do it? I need to man up, be more confident. I am going out tomorrow to some bars/clubs with work, but I want to overcome this fear of approaching women.

Thanks for reading Carl.