Now I've been in game for 4-5 months now studied loads of material - routines, ideas, concepts, all sort of it and I've been going out loads. I could even say that I know more about most of the guys in pick up and that's simple because I'm a geek. I love knowing about things.

Now the my problem is - I'm a pussy. Simple as that. I've literally came back from a club opened like 10-15 sets and all of those girls were attracted to me to a certain degree. I know exactly what they were thinking and could come back with an answer to everything they were saying even got approached like 3-4 times by girls. Thing is I'M A FUCKING PUSSY. I cannot fucking get over my anxiety of starting being sexual. I'd kino them, i'd tease them and say sexual things but I'd NEVER EVER go for the kiss. I counted them - 3 girls that i've spoken to tonight were giving kinoing me and making compliments on my looks ( which are 8.5 i'd say) and i'd keep on going talking fluff - some shit routine or try and game them when i didn't need to. I see them talking to guys after that for like a minute and they start making out in within 1-3 minutes.

How do i start being a man?!?!?! How do I go for the kiss when I want to rather to wait for them to show me signs and then still not go for it?!?!

I found this soooooo frustrating..........

Exactly the same way You'd conquer your AA.

You just go in for the kill man.

Before You go out next time, make sure your mindset is at it's finest. I've had the same issue, I had awesome game but couldn't escalate, untill I finally went for it and all I could do is laugh at myself how naive I was.

Seriously, these girls show alot of interest, they come talking to you by theirselves? Dude... There's nothing here to stop You. You have absolutely nothing to lose, not even your ego since You've done something alot of other guys wouldn't.

Man up, if You're worried about getting rejected, dont forget that girls all share the same ideal, they want a real man.

Best of luck - Soni

It's not even rejection dude it's funny cause i cannot explain it.

for example I'd go to a big set and scream to their face "AAAAAAAA"

I don't give a fuck about rejections. It's just this stuuuuuupid thing in the back of my head that holds me back from the holy grail.

I have two possible answers to that: either mastrubation even though I stopped doing it or the other thing is that it might be the fact that I've got no money what so ever. I'm literally skinned and it's hard finding a job. Basically it's a logistical issue but sure enough I could at least kiss a girl without having to worry that i won't be able to take her home with a taxi.

Dude, it's just a matter of getting the experience with these women. If you are getting all these IOI's and women approaching you, then don't worry. What's so great about making out with a girl in a club anyways. The moment you make out with one girl, you just fucked up your chances with all the rest. If you are having difficulty escalating sexually with women, the solution is simple.

Keep doing what you are doing, but secure the girls digits, escalate, via text message, and set up another encounter. You could even text them that night, while they are in the bar. or as soon as they leave. Escalate through the texts, ramp up the sexuality, if they respond well, then you are in. No need for any anxiety or fear.

Once you get used to hanging out with these women, and being sexual with them your confidence will raise, and you will not have these fears and AA.

If you frequent the same clubs, I suggest not making out in the club,( unless you are pretty sure your taking that girl home, even then keep it private) women are extremely observant, especially if they have interest in you. There could be 10 different women interested in you and watching your every move, the moment you start making out with some random chick or more, Is the moment they lose interest. If you want to be a player, be aware of your surroundings, if you gotta kiss a random chick, take her outside, or to a secluded part of the club.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Learn 2 things- and drop all the other PUA reading material.

Find 1 isolation routine you like. It should be simple and applicable to the venue you are going to.

Find 1 kiss routine you like- the one I used when starting was "You have glitter on your eye, let me get it." then when she closes her eyes, you kiss her.

And then go use them!

Routines will give you the courage to perform the action. After you've tried it a few times, you can improvise.

I know loads of kiss routines man and I've kissed loads of girls before. Now I don't care if any other girl sees me kissing some other chick. The kiss is nothing I'm just having trouble escalating in general and it's the fear of doing it. I'm just SOOOOO much afraid of just pulling the trigger. I am at this stage of my game where I can open everyone I've got 0 AA. I constantly qualify/tease/push pull. I'm basically doing whatever I need to do to get to the attraction and usually skip the rapport. I might even kino them all the time but I'm doing it consciously and it doesn't feel natural. Even when i kiss them I'm afraid of squeezing their bum and talking dirty even though i've got knowledge in how to do it.

I don't know what it is. It sounds weird but it's just that tt happened so many times to me that I would kiss a girl, we'll make out then i'd verbalize it, shock and awe or whatever i do to turn her on and it's very often that I couldn't pull the girl to my place or go to hers.

I generally just don't have the balls to do sexual things. And i'd regret not pushing myself afterwards. I'd be kicking my head cause of not having the balls to do it. And when it kicks in girls start feeling it. All that confidence that I had throughout the whole interaction disappears and they feel that so naturally they reject or wouldn't return my texts or be very flaky ..

As Bruce Lee would said, knowing is not enough, you must apply, wanting is not enough, you must take action. You can read about theory all you want but it's a complete waste of time if you' re not actually doing it. Once you actually kiss a girl in a club you will see that the rest flows pretty damn quickly, and she will be the one asking you to go somewhere else.

You don't need loads of kiss routines. You need 1 kiss routine.

Knowing all this information MAKES you fake. Your social interaction isn't natural anymore. Stop reading material. Use very few routines and go out with the goal of touching girls. You'll get there.

That sounds hilarious but I'll do it thanks for all the advises guys