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Stellar may have a traumatic past that, you can call him arrogant, immature, damaged and even if that's all true you cannot deny him being an alpha because if his stories are true then he is 100% alpha. It is not because he got laid a lot, it is because he faced his fears on his own for 6 years. He rose up to the challenge until he conquered it and he did it his way. He lead his interaction with women and they followed. That is why he is an alpha.
Hypothetical situation: I fear women. I fight my fear for years. I start getting laid. I got exactly what I've been fighting for. Yay, I'm alpha. But wait, there's more. On the contrary to getting laid, I am also so insecure that I yell at people when they disagree with me.
I call people names and I believe I'm always right in every situation. In fact, the only reason I'm getting laid is because the girl doesn't get past my first impression before I fuck her. And I know deep inside that if I ever had a girlfriend, that our relationship wouldn't last long because my insecurities would reek in her face and I wouldn't be strong enough to take care of myself - not to speak of take care of her.
But it doesn't matter, because I'm still alpha, right . . . ? I'm the ideal man, aren't I . . . ?
TELL ME I'M RIGHT YOU SON OF A BITCH. TELL ME I'M RIGHT.
You're misunderstanding what it means to be alpha. To be one it does not mean that you also have to be a great leader, a great man of class, a great friend, a wise monk etc. Just by using "I'm the ideal man right" for your arguement tells me that you dont really know what an alpha is and I didnt care to go in great deal in my previous post.
There are many examples in life and even movies where the villian, or asshole is an alpha who gets women because of his alpha attitude, behaviour and actions. He doesn't have to be a good person to be an alpha.
Sure, if there is a second guy who is also an alpha, a great person, mature, and more secure in himself then he has a better chance of getting the same girl especially for LTR.