Hey all,
This is my first post here and i am totally confused what to do :
PROBLEM SCENARIO FIELD REPORT (sorta) ==

I met this girl in a social non-pua academic conference
(29th march) : 1st day ==
First day, i knew i would game her but did not approach to show indifference and did just random casual talk here and there.
(30th march 2012, Friday) : 2nd day ==
No talk till lunch and when she came and stood by me casually while we listened to some speaker, standing in the back. I figured out this to be the best time to start gaming her (coz, my indifference uptil now makes it perfect indirect approach). Started the conversation, got friendly, and by the end-session of wine and cheese together with a friend of hers, I walked her back and casually exchanged numbers in lieu of "staying in touch".
My opinion = She felt comfortable (meaning, no sexual talks) in my presence throughout.
Also, i tried (as usual) to stick within periphery (within reachable distance) whenever circumstances tended to part us, although taking a walk around whenever somebody un-interesting started a talk with her (coz i knew he would burn himself out, giving me more power in-comparison).

We were both one-night sleep-deprived coz of helping in setting up that conference(we both worked for same org, but i had never seen her before), so we joked how tired we were and longed to go to sleep. We came back around 6pm and at around 9pm, i did quick google & sent her some keyword from her portfolio online to get my number to her(I assumed waiting on this part would have declined interests).

She did not reply back and next day
(31 march 2012, saturday) :-
i texted again (to evoke a response) if she got my number and she replied to both my texts a couple hours later, saying she was already asleep when i texted her 1st and gave me explanation to the portfolio (as i expected).
Now, coz i had sent her 2 texts, i assumed i appeared to her as demanding attention, so i decided to stay low on sunday.

(1st april, 2012, sunday) :-
She sent me a facebook friend request (which i have not accepted till now), given the fact that i know that my name is too common on facebook and not easy to find easily. I felt assured, that she spent some time looking me out.

(2 april 2012, monday) = i decided to freeze out to not show desperation/stalking.

(3 april, 2012, tuesday)
i send her a Mass-Ping text = (pretext - some girl led me to eat something nasty blah blah)

no response from her (she is a senior in college, so must have been in classes),

ME (after 2 hrs) :Included you by mistake in text-list. X is a nice friend
HER : No Response.
ME(within 5 minutes) :- "She had me eating those things, Nevermind"
(Confusion : She didnt like the text OR she got offended somehow OR i appeared desperate/needy of her attention)
She hasnt responded yet
QUESTION :
When should i accept fb request.?
How to shift the banal texting and arouse interest(texting) or bring her out.

I am open to SUGGESTIONS/COMMENTS but please dont get intimidated by long desciption (that is just for accurate description)...Kindly Help --

WOWW... a nice thing just happened...!!

So as i said earlier... i was on a freeze-out to this girl (whole story above to understand the whole dynamics going in-between uptil now)

For those who dont like reading too much wall of text...
I met this girl and took her number by non-sexual casual talks to stay in touch...
But then since i had not hit on any of her attraction switches i felt unusual to ask her out to date and thus just sent her mass ping text ("All, X is a bum... X led me to eat something nasty... blah blah..Check list item 4 Done") as if to pretend i am texting my group of friends and included her wrongly, while i am finishing some checklist of tasks lol .
So the whole plan was to depict my social proof, abundance of being with girls, having an adventurous life.
She did not respond.

After a day and a half freeze out...
I wanted to ask this girl out casually with the same old message trick of ("me and my friends are planning this X thing and you are welcome to join us.. blah blah"). But then i thought for a moment in my mind, what could be her state of mind -- and i figured out that she would be non-warmed up & if she does not reply back or refuses politely, i would be losing my (for the lack of a better word) points .. so i decided to first caliberate her state of mind by sending a ping text to gauge her status & thus --

5 April 2012, Thursday
ME = "Blue whale's tongue weighs more than an elephant... holy shittt... gotta love animal planet"
HER = [no response]

(My thoughts : Even if she did not respond back.. i do not lose anything... it was just a random statement and nothing needy)
And suddenly my phone rings and the text reads:

HER = "lol good to know Hey do you wanna go out sometime. I am out of class at 6 tomorrow.

ME = no response back (but BINGO on my mind )

Then after an hour wait, i planned a date with her and...
( i ll keep posting the rest of the field report...)

But hey BINGGO, at last the strategy worked...All the planning did work out eventually.
I did not even have to ask her out.. And rather the game well-played eventually led her to ask me out...!!

So the crux of this field report is -- Patience and caliberation is the key for a perfect seduction
Later...

This seemed to be your only mistake. Great work so far, good luck on the date.

Mistake it was.
But actually X was a girl named April which unfortunately also is the current month. So i had to do those instant damage-repairs by sending those further texts (so i dont come off as a bum who curses current month for his own mistakes lol ) rather than the original intent of that text (adventure + abundance + social proof spikes)
Suggestions/Comments on damage-repairs like these would be great.
-- Jack