One seat in AFC & Oblivious please!


All kidding aside, I've been lurking here for a minute now, and I have already employed some techniques I've learned here - though by no means am I finished - to be honest I've only just begun to game.

I really liked the basic body language stuff, dealing with eye contact - and hooking my thumbs in my back pockets when I talk. The alpha male presents vulnerability by exposing his chest, because he isn't afraid right? I remember reading something like that.

Anyhow - I wanted to say that I'm really appreciative of the community here, I think it's a great thing that this information is free, and also, I was really pleasantly surprised at the level of maturity. Leave em better than you found em - is an absolutely awesome way to look at things.

That said - I've gotten to the point where I number close 90% of girls I sarge(am I using that verb correctly?), but often times I get no response when I text them - at all, and very rarely do I ever get out with them again, even though in person we really were laughing and there was kino and everything. Anyone wanna take me under their wing, teach me a thing or two? I'd much appreciate some expedited learning!

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Hey, welcome to the community!

I'm by far from becoming an PUA but I have read something about the issue you have with the text problem. In the review section there is a post about a book called 'phone and text game'. Go check it out. There was a link to a video talking about things you should text them. Be mysterious. Open with 'the weirdest thing just happen to me...' that'll make them want to ask what. Then follow up by a funny story.

I wish you luck and hopefully I can learn from you ask I have not number close in my life yet.

Good luck!

I use to have a lot of trouble number closing - but what I have found, through reading here and then trying and testing it - is that the big deal is establishing your "frame"

There are lots of ways to do this I guess but the only way I have is with body language. For me I just lock eyes, and I don't really look away, the entire time I'm talking and smiling and and making jokes I "Neg" about the girl having lipstick on her teeth while I'm doing this and don't look at her mouth at all.

I'm thinking that when this happens when she gets negged like that she looks away momentarily out of a small ammount of embarassment or maybe something else - but it establishes I guess that she needs to "qualify" or that I'm assessing her flaws.

While this is going on I'll be talking about almost anything. I had a conversation about sports straps that go on sunglasses, and fanny packs - and which one was worse (obviously we found common ground by agreeing the fanny pack was worse), which was a really easy way to generate comfort.

When I told this particular girl I wanted to see her, she shit tested me with a "I'll be at karaoke again sometime" but I didn't blink or act like it effected me. I just asked again, more directly told her to give me her number that I was gonna take her out for either coffee or drinks. She seemed excited. This was all in the middle of Macy's as I was walking through to go sunglasses shopping in the mall.

Problem? Today I texted her, Good Morning, and got no reply. At all, all day. I have no idea why?

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