How do I approach my crush if shes ALWAYS with her friend(s)



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 10:38 am 
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Okay so there's this girl in my class that I got a huge crush on her.We made eye contact a couple times and it usually lasted for nearly 3 secs but we never talked(its only been 4 classes so far).I tried to go and talk to her after the class is over many times but the problem is she's ALWAYS with at least 1 friend(they are all girls) which makes me go back in my decision.I never had a gf before,I did know some girls 2 years ago or somethin when I used to go to a certain sport club other than that,I don't know any girls(except online) because my school is all boys(the class I take isn't associated with only 1 school) which makes it hard for me to talk to more than 1 girl at once(I already find talking to only 1 hard :/).Any tips ?


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 7:48 pm 
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You can't put the moves on the girl without her friends noticing -- this is the case of whether you get her alone or not. Girls are very social creatures; they are going to talk to eachother about things that happen to them irregardless.

Towards that end, think of this as an opportunity, not a problem. If you can win over a girls friends, you can win her over very easily at well.

If you approach a set of girls, there will be a period of time where they will only "sort of" pay attention to you. There are always a few moments where they are looking at eachother, trying to read eachother to see if the person they are talking to (you) is "safe" to talk to.

This means two things --
Their primal instincts kick in and fight-or-flight takes over.

When you first meet someone, they are quickly analyzing two primary things.
1. Are you someone who will harm them?
2. If not, are you someone who can help them, somehow?

So, put their minds at ease quickly. Disarm them and come at them with something goofy. Humor is excellent at lowering the proverbial "force field" so many men are afraid to run into when they talk to a woman. You have a class together, so their is no excuse for you not to have some sort of topic of conversation to bring up. Keep it light, keep it funny.

Also, visualize these women not as super hot girls, or some unattainable object you can never hope to acquire -- thats setting yourself up for failure. Much like the public speaker visualizes his audience in their underwear, picture your sets as 7 year old versions of themselves. They are children -- kid sisters, competing for your attention.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 8:41 pm 
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Hello,
Thanks for the reply bro but its too late,I already made a move 8) So here's what happened:
After class,I walked out with my friends and she was at the end of the street standing with 2 girls so I went up to them(my friends were a lil behind me for support :wink: ),looked at her and said ''Hi'' with a little smile.She said ''Hi,1 second please'' because she was on phone.Then she turned around and at the same time a friend of mine was coming from the opposite direction and he told me that she had a big smile on her face the moment she turned around.Then some troll guy from our class came with a beer in his hand and said''OHHH I'M SO HIGGHHH'' so the girls creeped out and moved away.I didn't want to follow her so I won't look desperate.I'll hopefully talk to her next time,what should I say ?


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 11:24 pm 
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Non verbaly. Aproach her group verbaly but give her special body language no verbal treat. Simple as that if you ask me. :)


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 9:31 am 
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If you're too shy, find out her name and then add her on facebook.


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use the awkward situation as an advantage. turn it into a joke or something funny and use it when you meet up with the girl :)


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 5:25 pm 
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I like what mista-faulda said, as it is a circumstance specific opener it will seem real and get her attention. if she is always with friends, I would recomend the MysteryMethod (ignore and neg the target, focus on the best friend) then acknowledge her existence,and create an excuse to isolate. Phase-shift and bam! problem solved. get her num and wait a while before calling her.


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