I'm gaming this HB9, shes all over me. There is solid kino, rapport, and heavy flirting.

However, she has become rather distant from me lately, and I'm sure both of us sense a feeling of awkwardness between us. This could be due to one of two reasons:

(1) I indirectly ignored her a bit lately (I have a busy life), and openly gamed other girls in the meantime. She knows about this and teases me about them, often asking for information. I have also started giving more attention to her friend, playfully flirting with her, etc...

(2) When we were alone, I called her by my ex's name by mistake.....three times. She appeared pissed, and I don't blame her. I have a tendency of blurting out stuff without thinking. If anyone knows how to stop this I beg you to help me

What should I do when a girl freezes me out like this? Or did I do something wrong?

PS: I should also state that she has a bf, but I just wanna see what I did wrong in this scenario.

PSS: I'm meeting her tomorrow at a party, any suggestions?

Whatever you do DO NOT call her by your ex's name again - women despise that.

Once is a mistake, three times will probably cause an issue.

But who knows? Maybe she's just feeling guilty since she has a bf.

game her
kino her
fuck her

put all the other bullshit out of your head

While at the party, OPEN other girls

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I got to say, that's awfully funny.

If you have a busy life and you feel she's upset by it or got the wrong impression the best thing to do(in my opinion) would be tell her. Let her know 'Sorry I've been super busy lately. To make it up to you, I'm all your today!'

What did you say after you call her by your EX? 'oh sorry' and let it go? What did you say after the 3rd time? In my opinion she may feel when your with her the feeling you get reminds you of your EX, which is bad. Does she remind you of your EX? If that's the case then I think to fix it is: Remind yourself your with someone else.

She may also think your just a friend too...

I'm not going to apologize to anything.

Well the first and second times I called her by my ex's name she playfully started to hit me. The third time I joked that it was an annoying coincidence. On second thought, maybe I should apologize about that.

She doesn't remind me of my ex, far from it. Well over her. It had to do with the fact that I dated two girls with the same name so I got my names confused.

Argh she's bringing her boyfriend tonight. To be honest I never had to deal with the boyfriend directly, so I'm kinda intimidated. I still plan on opening and doing my normal thing, but I'm staying away from BF destroyers.

Advice?

You just gave your own best advice!

If you bump into, or get clogged up together, I would even go so far as to slightly befriend the BF! and barley acknowledge her presence, except politeness!

Good job Bro!

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