So I might have fucked it up with this girl but wonder what i should have done? This girl goes to my school and i've been checking her out for a while now just never rly got to talk to her since i always see her in between classes and it's always a rush. She saw me at a parade and grabbed my attention, we talked for a bit and then i left.
I see her at school and start a convo with her only to find out that her dad just passed away and that her and her bf just broke up. That same day i send her a msg on facebook saying we should "burn" on class break soon and gave her my number. She sent me a text right away saying it was her and that she was down to hang on break. we hung out the next day, went for a drive and just talked about random stuff. She was laughing and smiling and seemed like everything was fine. She told me what she was doing on the weekend when she was dropping me off then drove away. That night i texted her and asked what she was doing and bla bla bla... I told her i liked hanging out with her and wanted to spend more time with her. She never answered and ignored a few of my texts after that. Today, (3 days later) i texted her asking how her day was and bla bla bla back and forth. Then asked her why she had been ignoring me. She said it was because she wasn't trying to hang out with any guys "like that" and that she was happy how things were for her. I told her that she should have just told me instead of ignoring me. Then she went on to ignoring me again. What the hell did i do wrong? I thought that if i didnt let her know what's up right away that i'd fall in the friendzone. What should have i done? and is there anytthing else i can do to reverse this case since i will see her in school again soon. Should i just ignore her? say hi? or what not?

I may not be the best person to give advice since I don't necessarily have the best game. But I know from experience that a girl who just got out of a relationship is generally not looking to rush right back in to one.

The friendzone is one thing to be worried about, yes, but, you telling her you want to hang out more and so on only raises flags. Now she knows your intentions. Also, you continually texting her when she ignores you is not always the best thing. It makes you come off as needy.

When a girl doesn't respond to my text I don't message her for a few days, maybe even a week. Sometimes I don't message her until I get a message back. But this is only if I'm certain she's going to text me back.

For me, personally, being the cocky asshole works best. Don't be rude to her, but jokingly let off the vibe that you're better than her and she should be working for you.

When she told you she wasn't looking for "That kind of guy" or whatever it was she said you should have said something along the lines of "Pssh, don't flatter yourself, I never said anything about looking for a girl like you."

Anyways, thats my opinion. I could be completely wrong. I don't know what you can do from here other than continue to talk to her casually (NOT every day) and show her that other girls like to be around you. Talk to other girls and make them laugh. Prove to her that you're a good time. Show her that other girls have interest in you.

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Your mistake was that you told the girl that you liked hanging out with her. You made her feel like a slut, by hanging out with random guy. I know that doesn't make any sense, but its just the way it is. Just like you don't tell a girl I had good sex with you, or I had a good kiss with you, you don't tell a girl I liked hanging out with you. Just hang out with her. Telling her how much you like hanging out with her, killed attraction. Just get over her and move on. I already messed up like 3 or 4 girls. But, I am moving on. The hardest part is not feeling shit yourself, and once you can get that right, you won't have any problem with girls. Just hang out with her and have fun. Its for her to tell you how much she likes hanging out with you, not the other way around.

Yes, use this approach.

yeaaa saw her today at school she was sitting on a computer and pretended like she didnt see me when i walked by... when i was leaving i said hi to her and she gave a weird hi back. I was hanging out with another girl when i saw her idk if that had anything to do with it. I guess i'll just move on...Never telling another girl i like hanging out with them again.

Lol you told her you liked hanging out with her after the first day? lol and you're asking what you did wrong?!!!! What you did was the biggest killer because it just made you come across as a needy person and then all the texts to why she'd been ignoring you just made things a LOT worse! Just leave it and learn from your mistake and move on!

sooo saturday i threw a party and posted it on facebook. on sat night she texted me if she could come to the party with her friends. i said yeaa but to bring her own booze.. she came but didnt stay long because of her friends wanted to go to some other party. today i saw her in school and said hi. after i texted her and said "i was gonna ask to come come smoke but u seemed to be a bad mood" she said she wasnt, said she was busy doing hw when i said hi. I think she'll will hangout with me again when i ask.... how should i act and do?

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