1. Hypothetical situation: you're taking the train/car/w.e with your girlfriend. You get off but the she has her bag on the hand that is facing you (my gf always carries her bag on her left hand) and you can't hold hands. Asks you to come on the other side. This is happening a lot to me with my current girlfriend, i feel like she's never budging in, I usually am the one that switches sides. I mean it would sound kinda stubborn and shitty to say "well you do it". How would PUA's handle this situation ?

2. Also, when you meet your girl, do you always take her hand when you start walking together or do you wait for her to do it ?

I usually make the girls just hold on to my arm.. I just tell em " grab my arm".. It's been a while since i've gotten a rejection on that.. With the whole bag situation bro, I just wouldn't attempt to hold her hand if the bag is in that hand. She obviously isn't too concerned with hand holding. Going over to the other side to grab the other hand just shows that your desperate for affection.

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I see. Like i said my girl always holds her bag on her left arm, says it's easier for her, so let's assume there's a valid reason for it. What would you say if she'd ask you to come over to the other side? what would your response be ?

Like I stated, the odds are that I wouldn't be in this situation because there is a line of respect I establish with a girl i am going to be dating from the beginning..

Hypothetically though, I just wouldn't do it.. I would start a new conversation.

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Thank you.