On Wednesday my gf and her friend are going for a 'catch up' with this dude I we all know.


He's a nice guy and moves in similar circles to me. I'd say he has pretty high value etc.

Anyway my GF asked me if I wanted to come along, I will be in work in the area until the early afternoon, but that is when they plan to meet up for drinks anyway...I just said I would see what time we get finished etc. but that it sounded cool.


It would be good to see my GF and the others, but I am just wondering how best to come out of this meet up smelling of roses.


You might be asking why I'm so conscious of this?

Well basically, towards the start of my relationship with my GF I was dosing off in my place after a bit of drinking when I overheard her and the same girl talking about this dude we're all friends with. To cut a long story short my GF's friend thinks he is hot but he has a GF...my GF then proceeded to agree and said she would probably have been interested in him if she hadn't already met me.


I have absolutely no problem with this at all; its perfectly natural to feel that way and the crucial thing is of course 'if she hadn't met me'.

However, I feel a competitive streak growing in me now so firstly do I show up on wednesday?


Secondly, if I do so, what are some basic pointers to come out of such a meet up with better value etc.

There is some sort of jealousy in you. No problem there is a easy way to fix it. The best thing to do when you have jealousy is to harness it into power. Use that power to game other girls in front of your gf. The reason many girls leave a their bf is because they feel like their bf needs them more that she needs the bf. Think about it a guy who has 20 girls waiting to date him, what will this guys gf think. She will never leave him because she understands how much he's worth because he has value. So go out there and game other girls. Don't cheat on your gf but just flirt with other girls in front of her it's very simple. Make sure not to this only to get her back but rather because you enjoy doing it. Good luck

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Thanks, just to clarify we get on great...I trust her 100% and although tonnes of guys say this I really don't think she is a cheater.

But at the same time I understand people are human, and can of course think people other than their partners are attractive...heck we all do!


With this all in mind...would you go meet up with the three of them after work? I've been invited by my gf...it is all above board.


...And if you would go, what would you do to come away with the better value?


Believe me, its not so much jealousy, more wanting to make sure there aren't any chinks in our relationship long term by say...my value falling etc.

I wouldn't go..

You won't be acting normal because you are already seeking guidance on a situation that hasn't even happened.. Just sit home man, it'll be better for your relationship.

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She rang me before to talk about my job interview and stuff today...


Mentioned that she's meeting her lady friend for brunch and that they're meeting the dude later on (around the time I can finish work (flexi-time FTW) 3 blocks away) and if I'd care to join.


I'm gonna go down...I seriously do not think this guy is a shark, and my gf is no cheater.

However I also have came to respect (and hopefully improved my understanding) how attraction works...so it would be good to go along?


I've said I would give her an SMS when I've finished work etc.