| This will be a fairly long post - but very in depth, I hope... I'll offer a look at how I am gaming a professional HB8.5 - She's a doctor; late 30's, built, redhead, beautiful light skin, blue eyes - simply stunning - I'm 45, in shape, tanned (Florida coast), and have been running game since the mid-90's as a bullrider in the PRCA. Newbies - read and enjoy. Veteran MPUAs (Guys at least mid-20's with game) - I'd love your take on this at the end... Heading into uncharted waters.
My father was diagnosed with cancer - I wasn't even intending on running game. We went to see the oncologist - and in walks this damned attractive readhead. I listened intently as the situation was explained concerning a mass they found in my father. This was serious shit - yet I noticed the Doc and I'd had serious eye contact (and I never break eye contact - Newbies: NEVER fear a hot chick and eye contact...it builds to Kino so much faster!). I didn't act on it in any way.
FF 2 weeks later - new appointment with my father; it's cancer and she's the surgeon going to be doing the cutting. My dad starts trying to 'set her up with me'... and while I apologize for him, she smiles, dismisses me and starts talking about her own lack of dating since she's fairly new to town and woring so much... I dropped the conversation (takeaway, but I also didn't want to start this with Dad having surgery in a week).
Day of surgery - we've got a dozen family in the OR waiting room hoping to hear good news from the Dr. She comes out - looks exhausted...smiles and says she got it all. My mom gets a hug, My brother gets one, then she comes to me and collapses in my arms; I actually pushed her back after the hug went on way too long. I held her chin in my hand looked her in the eye and said 'thank you' with tears in my own eyes (My dad's my hero...this lady saved his life - literally).
An hour later, as my dad got settled into his room and took a nap - we all went downstairs to the cafeteria to get lunch. Over at the salad bar I see the Doctor. I walk behind her and whisper in her ear "Darlin, we've got to stop meeting like this... people are going to start talking". She turns, smiles and starts conversation. I drop the FTC (no need to, we were both obviously transient - I felt the subliminal would still work), and we discussed favorite foods. She was talking about being from the South and her love for barbecue. I threw out a pretty hard neg - told her "I see you're getting salad...I have to disagree with you, I really don't think you need a diet. You look pretty good to me.". She responds with "Just pretty good".. I turned my back a 1/4 turn looked over my shoulder and said "Yeah, but I dig chicks in scrubs". I smiled and went to sit down to eat (Gives her the knowledge I have no problems ending the conversation - and that I'm playful. I'm also not one of the other guys she's used to. I figured she's a doctor - people are doing what she says ALL the time, she needs a man who she can trust to allow him that control.).
The following afternoon my brother and I went to visit my dad in his room. The word was from my parents and others there visiting that the Doctor was asking about me... Then the bet was dropped that I couldn't get her out on a date...My folks and my brother know I'm a player - they just don't know the science involved... I accepted the bet. I went downstairs and bought the cheapest flowers they had, and gave them to my dad. As we were talking, I saw the doctor at the nurse's station about to start her rounds. She looked in the room and saw me, I never acknoweldged her. When I saw her head to the other end of the ward, I said my goodbyes with my folks and left. On the way out my brother asked why we were leaving - that the doctor was coming by... I said that's WHY I was leaving. I don't want her to think I give a shit if I see her or not.
The next day, my plan worked. My dad (who hates flowers), gave the flowers to the doctor and said they were from me (He was my pawn, they were the tool)....and I set my plan in action. I sent real flowers to her the next week. I don't send flowers often, but this lady was 1) hot and 2) saved my dad's life - she deserved $60 in fucking flowers! I sent flowers with a small teddy bear dressed in a doctor's outfit, and a note that said "Apparently my father sent flowers on my behalf. I wanted to show you I can do that on my own. These flowers, dinner, wine and dancing will start to show my thanks." No name, no phone number.
My parents had to go for a follow up app't with her a week later. They got there before the flowers arrived, and she'd asked for my number. They were already home, my mom called me to tell me she'd asked for my number when the Doctor called squealing thanks for the gift.
Went on the date a week later - Not much to discuss, she became monotonous. Fluff mostly. Wasn't sure how to end the night... This was still my dad's cancer doc, whom he sees a lot - and I'm not going to fuck that up... So I went for the hug, and there was the awkwardness as she thought I was going to kiss her, and we didn't... I left that to linger... and went home - it was awkward.
Next day - I confronted my dad, told him what was up, and that I'd not make a move unless I had his blessing. I told him straight up I wanted to fuck his doctor. He said.
Talk/text has been decent, not flag-waving though...
Booked the next date, happening this next weekend. I'm thinking full on caveman at the very beginning... look her in the eyes, hold her elbows, tell her there was something I'd wanted to do for quite some time... and kiss her.
Thoughts? And thanks for reading if you did... LOL
Rodeo.
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