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ok so i tried this with a girl i still occasionally talk to from my hometown who goes to a different college then me(we are both freshmen) on facebook except i switched in alcohol names, she literally answered my question and seemed to pay no attention to the words beforehand.. she said she was half crying from a movie she was watching and trying to text someone else.. we kinda had something this past summer but shes just hard to read.. i just changed the topic and we just talked about other general stuff... so idk a little help?
Start moving your texts to the random, edgy, cocky, funny guy. Get yourself to a point where she's excited to get a text from you because you're always 'that guy' that evokes FUN.
Wait 2 days til it goes cold (if it doesn't... extend your own text time response exponentially longer than hers - do a subliminal takeaway).
Then, you can redirect. Start with a simple "Wanna help me rob a bank?"
No matter her reply - respond with "Seriously, I need an accomplice. You driving or shooting?"
Now, you're getting her involved in role play, you're setting the precedent that you entertain her and challenge her, and you're pulling the strings the whole while. The best part of the 'Rob a bank' thread is that you can steer the conversation down a sexual path "OK... well, how bout you just ride, and I'll do all the shooting "....or you can keep the texts benign.
If she texts you back in 5 minutes, respond to her in ten. If she respons in 30, you wait 45. Always increase the time so they realize when you text - it's not often (subliminal response based on habit), it makes them smile, and they start looking forward to your texts - from then on, you've launched a platform by which you can tap it on a regular basis.
Rodeo.