Figured Id toss this on both forums for some different angles.
Here is a link for a brief rundown
http://www.theattractionforums.com/newb ... d-her.html
Alright, try and make this short as possible.
Work with someone once a week, want to know where I stand with this chick I work with.
When Im at work super flirty, I neg her all that. Didnt really like her at first, asked her to hang out, got her number. Didnt chill with her because I was busy for a coupel weeks. Texted on and off, usually funny shit when I think she would laugh, like every 2 or 3 days, she send high investment texts. Pretty sure my very first text like friendzoned her. Only asked her to chill out once after the time I got her number when I had some freetime but she declined due to school.
Fast forward to thursday, and Im working, she comes in to get her pay cheque and watch her dad play hockey (work in an arena) , sees me asks me to come, we sit there for like a short time, were laughing and im negging her as her dad is like ignoring her waving and shit when hes on the ice (which was honestly hilarious). she hits me a couple times, tells me shes not working friday but sunday cuz shes moving (dunno why shed feel the need to tell me).
On to today, I go to work, and like directly when she gets on she calls my my extension says come talk to me (which is a first, shes called tons but never to just come talk and since i literally do nothing for 9 hours i went). as soon as I got up there her phones starts going off. she says its this guy shes seeing and how he wants to know where he stands with her and how hes leaving in a month or something out west and that she doesnt want a relationship (shes never mentioned anything like this before, I was kinda shocked). other things as well such as how she doesnt like needy, and about how she kinda likes him. anyways, shes talking basically to no one for a bit im just on my cellphone sorta in one ear and out the other. finally i broke and was like this dude sounds like a pussy (hes like texting non stop asking her all this shit) and being afc about all this since they werent even dating. told her she was doing it all wrong by texting back and feeding him and told her shes got no game. i basically laid it down. thought at the time i prolly shouldnt but i went with it. i leave for a bit and come back a couple hours later and shes instantly like "he asked me how many other guys ive slept with while we were "together"", and she said she just ignored the question, the dude sounds totally insecure lol. anyways i cut that right there, changed the subject, didnt hear about it the rest of the night and we had a good time, ended up rolling a joint and getting stoned and just having a good night.
anyways, does this chick think im like her gay friend, or was this a shit test to see how i would react. basically i told her that this guys being a pussy for nothing, showed her how i dealt with a chick that did the exact same thing and told her she had no game, she was like "are you saying i dont got game, cuz i got game".
ANYWAYS, if you need more info, let me know, it got a little long once i started writing it, sorry lol. tomorrow i think ima text her for a bit then ask her to chill on tuesday, see if she bites.
CHAT