Is there a guide or forum post that talks about what you should be doing 1 month into dating a girl if your goal is a long term relationship?

I know your not meant to mention the let's be exclusive stuff until she does but I already know I'm the only guy she's dating through picking up on some hints!

Just say everything is going great, youve never had a flake and are seeing each other three times a week and having great sex and fun. Lots of positive emotions ect! Are there any golden rules you shouldn't break at this time?

Dave

Just keep it going as it is, don't get needy or screw up. She'll let you know about wanting to be exclusive. Concentrate on enjoying being with her and making sure the time she spends with you is super fun.

I haven't gone deep yet into the Relationships Section of this forum Dave but I can share you some pointers from the PUA materials that I've bought and studied.

• 1. Build deep emotional connections on her positive childhood experiences. These emotional connections will strengthen her loyalty and faithfulness to your relationship.
  
  2. Build happy, memorable experiences with you. These memorable experiences will be your edge in case another guy comes along and tries to sarge your HB.
  
  3. Keep her chasing for the words, "I love you." Once you give in, you would be an easy kill and her attraction with you will cease to build momentum. You can imply but you shouldn't tell.

These are the ones that make sense. Maybe you'll find these useful too.

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If you have any elaboration on these topics or know of some good resources for more information, I would appreciate it as well.

You build deep emotional connections with others by simply sharing experiences. Disclosure about profound experiences you've had in your life helps others connect with you on an emotional level, and ultimately make them want to connect to you on a more intimate level. Revealing your vulnerabilities to a woman conveys strengths, not weakness as many guys assume. It demonstrates you feel safety with her and that you're invested enough to have a deeper rapport and connection with her.

Building happy experiences as simply as it implies. Focus on process, not outcome - be engaged in the moment by focusing on the present and letting go of any expectations you have which may impede your ability to stay in the here-and-now. Trying something new together would be a good way, it doesn't always have to be something high energy, it may be going on a picnic somewhere nice but the key here is the emotional connection - people tend reflect not on the trivialities of the situation but rather the emotional experience they've taken from it.

I think the 3rd point is moot seeing as if you build a strong emotional connection her heart will maturely lead her dreading the thought of somebody else having you.

@asesino: This is a great concise and clear explanation.

@Snarg: We can discuss about the eye cues sometime. The eye cues can help us identify which experiences we should connect on as well as gauge how effective our emotional connection routines have been.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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