Hi, everyone. I'm 21 years old and there's this thing that I can't talk about with anyone else because it's something I'm deeply ashamed of.

To make the long story short, I've got a girlfriend of 10 months, and everything's been going fine so far. There's just the thing that I've got a very disgusting fetish. I haven't mentioned it to her yet, just jokingly sometimes and she didn't send any clue of being into it. It's simple: I'm aroused by women peeing themselves (preferably with clothes on). Call me perv or anything, I just can't do anything about it. It's not like I'm molesting children or something harmful and dangerous anyways...

So I just thought that 10 months is getting quite a long time, oh also we're currently living together. I just can't figure a way how could I introduce this. I'm not afraid of she simply not being into this, because I could say that's quite possible. I'm afraid she would despise (or even leave) me because of this. But I just can't hide it anymore, it's driving me nuts. Every single time she mentions she needs to pee I just can't think of anything else. Each time we start a tickle war I secretly hope it will happen, it's getting really nasty. I mean I am starting to scare myself if that makes sense.

I seriously need help with this. How could I tell her this without looking like a total weirdo? I was thinking about asking about her weirdest sexual fantasies, but she hasn't mentioned anything really weird then I just figured that even if she has some things like this she's probably as shy about them as me, so it's kind of worthless to circle around the problem.

I'm really lost in my head whenever it comes to this. I do hope someone has been in an at least slightly similar situation as me and can help me out.

There are many girls out there that are into watersports and stuff, you just gotta find em. As for your GF, I would be cautious about fessing up.

Well as far as I know, having a fetish is not really that special. I oftentimes heard that far out most people (and perhaps all people) have them. I have one and I know all my 'really good' friends have them as well.. So in that regard I wouldn't really worry about having one yourself. On the other hand, it does seem to take a lot of trust to tell someone your fetish..