So I was at a really busy bar last night. I was walking through the room and lots of girls were giving me iois. Some were dancing so I decided to DHV and show some dance game in the middle of the room. When I started dancing I was the only male on the dance floor so naturally girls loved it cause I did it with confidence. So I decided to go the bar and there was this hb8 which i really wanted to speak to which was in a 3 set. I opened the set and straight after that a guy comes behind me and starts playing with my hair( which is long btw) and laughing. At first I ignored him but he continued doing it.

Now when i had a glance at him he immediately stopped. It was a bald guy who clearly was jelous of all the attention i had..... It really drives me insane when someone does that and i was absofuckinglutely fuming. All i wanted to do is spit in his face and punch his nose. But I just remained calm and gave him the wtf look. The thing is he continued doing it at which point I grabbed his hands and told him. If you want to have a nice night go away.

It's pointless to say that the set was gone. And up to that point my night was going great and this douche ruined it all. It all went downhill from there...

Do you guys have any suggestions ?

fuck all the shit you read about ignoring. just turn around and say fuck off.

Play with his nipples for awhile. Keep a neutral face. When he gets physical, knee him by the balls. If he walks away, you're good. You've made him look like a fag while you on the other hand showed your sexuality to the set without saying a word.

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I hate that shit, just start a YOU MUST BE GAY, sort of pissing contest, or as another guy suggested you can start playing gay chicken... but seriously, no one wins in a game of gay chicken

if you don't know how to start the pissing contest, just something along the lines of looking at who you were talking to, realizing it is a guy playing with your hair, and saying loudly so everyone can clearly hear,

awww.. cool, a gay guy has come to feel me up

then what ever he does, just be absolutely sure he is gay, like he just can't convince you otherwise, just hold the frame he will try to flip it and make you uncomfortable, the more sure of yourself you are and relaxed, the better, be proactive rather then reactive, when in doubt either agree with him, or just point out exactly what he is doing and frame it as he is gay, hold the frame


then there is the terrible game of gay chicken,
just do something even more gay to him, just call him hunny and start rubbing his stomach, just escalate on him, eventually one guy will get homophobic and chicken out, NO ONE WINS IN THIS GAME... NO ONE

as soon as he starts getting angry or trying really hard, just stop trying to be in the pissing contest, start dismissing what he is saying, agreeing with him, and ignoring him, until he looks awkward, just talk to the girls etc.

if he turns out to be funny or not trying to tool you, then just don't worry about it, focus on the girl and don't be a dick

Had you done that, it would have made you look like a chick. AMOG dont do things like that. See how Will did to that guy in Good Will Hunting?

Next time, this happens again, say excuse me to the girl, and tell that guy, is there a problem? If so, we can settle this outside of the bar. I will bring my friend Jack and we can have a little talk. If this guy gets intimated, then go back to the girl, if not, then just tell him to fuck off, but not in front of the girl. Then get back to the girl, and tell her a little joke about that guy. Always act nonchalant. Never ever get pissed. This is what it means when you get pissed. You are acting like a child, and since girls are like kids, it actually kills attraction if you act pissed off and like a child. You gotta be the man and always act like a mature person.

Look at Bush, the guy threw a shoe at him. What did he do? He made a joke about it. Couldn't he just go ahead and beat the shit out of that prick? You dont' have to like Bush, but learn from him. AMOG are leaders and they don't play shit like this. Bush cracked a joke and made it seem like its not a big of a deal, although it was an embarrassment.

Next, from my personal experience. I work in a lab with a girl and a guy. This guy is a computer, anime, manga, and meme nerd. He is nothing but a wuss. Every lab he picks on me and I ignore him. I act like, what the heck is he talking about. This creates a situation where I made him look like an idiot in front of everyone, and at the same time raised my social value. One day, I was mixing chemicals and got a good product. Next, he mixed another set of chemicals and got an ok product. Then he told that girl, this proves that I (the guy) am just smarter than him (me). You know what the girl said? Without getting impressed, she said, it really just doesnt matter. Get over yourself. I never say anything, about me being good. Girls usually notice that anyway.

So, just go on with what I said, and act like you are a leader and act nonchalant at all times, if something like this ever happens. And watch the Bush video if you havent seen it already.

Just say to the set "Aren't you worried this guy's hitting on me and not you lot?"

Or to the guy while keeping the girls in the conversation "There's 3 attractive women here, and me. Yet you decide to try your chances with me...you're making me blush"

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Wait, hold on... some bald dude comes up and plays with your hair and that pissed you off? Lets forget about "amoging" for a second and focus on why you let others effect your emotions so easy. Think about that. Personally, I would have taken it as a compliment.

Anyways, most of the answers in this thread disturb me greatly. How should you have handled him? Turn around, extend your hand, have a smile on your face and introduce yourself. Make friends, not enemies. Maybe he was a cool guy and just a little weird or something, who knows.

After you introduced yourself just tell him "excuse me" and go back to chatting up the lady. Only if he then persist in being an annoying prick do you resort to more unfriendly tactics. 99.9% of the time simply making friends with the "amog" will work out better than any "amog tactic" you will find.

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What a bunch of faggot responses. I had a guy try and tool me infront of my girl, last weekend, and I told him what I thought of him. I got his girl showing interest and my girl was even more all over me afterwards. Okay police had to come and split it up but I dont think it would have ended violently. Sometimes fellas.... you just gotta be a man!

You're such a badass

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Fuck AMOGing, are you sure he wasn't gay? If a bald guy started playing with my hair, I'd be reaching for the duct tape to seal my asshole shut.

[quote="Snarg"]Fuck AMOGing, are you sure he wasn't gay? If a bald guy started playing with my hair, I'd be reaching for the duct tape to seal my asshole shut.[/quote]

Made me laugh!

I've actually never had a fight in my life but sometimes people over step the line lol

There's a clear line between being friendly to sarge girls and disrespect. One clear look should have made the guy stop from playing with the OP's hair. But he persisted.

Playing with his nipples is fishing for the guy to initiate the fight first while strategically positioning both of your hands so you can clinch the guy on his nape should he throw a punch and then knee him on the balls with a proper Muay Thai clinch.

This will show on the bar's CCTV camera which gives you an advantage in case the police are called over. You have to choose your friends and shouldn't be friends with just about anyone. If you befriended a drug dealer or gangster, then that has a long term effect/impact on your social life.

If you go into a shouting match with him, this will call attention and some of his friends will surround you. He'll hit you first and you'll be unprepared because you're too busy shouting. If you bring him outside, this is calling for a fight and you lose the element of surprise. You'll also be likely facing multiple opponents.

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