Or is she think I'm being sulky and AFC?

I've made out like we're all good and we're both fine.

I told her I just needed a little space. :)

I don't want to give too much advice on this. But I will say too much gaming may put her off and you don't realise it.

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Law of Attraction

I'm not gaming her, I'm just not being AFC.

I'm not kicking up a fuss that she's decided to go to a party.

I'm just letting her do her thing but we're having a little less contact than usual.

Let us know how the freeze out works for you

Will do man. At the moment it's okay.

I know she's not the happiest but I've told her everything's cool.

Last night she texted/called me multiple times but I didn't answer.
She said 'please stop ignoring me'. She left voicemail that sounded like she was pretty unhappy, maybe even a little upset.

So I text her, just to say everything's okay and that we're fine...

Then she went to her party.

She text me this morning to say she had missed me.

I said 'cool but bye, I have college'.

We haven't spoken since.

That's about it so far. I'll see what happens when we reinitiate contact.

I think you did the right thing. Let us know what happens.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

She ended up getting kinda upset by being freezed out.

She asked me what was up and I said 'Nothing, I'm fine, I just wanted a little space'.

She says she hated having to call text me loads of times and said it made her feel bad.

In response, I said 'all I did was not answer my phone, you've cancelled me on wednesday 3 weeks in a row.'

Maybe I shouldn't have said that because it would come across a little sulky but I made sure I gave the impression that I was alright and it didn't bother me.

This was all over text.

When I met her the next day, we talked. She still seemed a little upset but I was as cool as ever. I told her I hadn't been in the mood to give her sympathy when she was upset because of her cancelling my 3 weeks in a row.

I made it really obvious for her that that was the only reason I hadn't picked up my phone.

We made up. I didn't apologise but I told her next time I would respond.

And that's it. It was all pointless drama but I know I came out on top.

We're both happy now. I really love that short period after an argument or after drama where you're both happy and all over eachother. It feels so fresh.

That seems a bit of a strange attitude to have in a relationship with someone you love :/

Personally, I wouldn't have froze her out. I'd just get on with life, it's no big deal really.

Haha don't worry buddy, me and my girlfriend really do love eachother.

Relationships are just too painful when you're an AFC!

I realise now that the subtle changes I've made have been benefitial to both of us.

When I say 'I came out on top' I mean it didn't end with a massive pointless apology AFC style. That's all.

I would never try and get one over on my amazing girl.