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PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 9:13 pm 
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I just got out of a 3 year ltr so my AFCness is at a new all time high!

I thought maybe i should get the book "The Rules Of The Game" and do some of the challenges..

I figured it couldn't hurt at all.

but i was wondering if there is something new or better that i should try.

I haven't been in the game for forever so i don't know if the book is out dated or anything..

Help?

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I got out of a 4 year LTR this Monday just gone so I feel where you're coming from bro.

Personally, I'd say do whatever works best for you right now, and whatever puts you back in a confident state and ups your inner game.

I'm re-reading The Game, Rules of the Game, The Art of Seduction and Magic Bullets.

I'm also focusing on making my life as good as it can be in order to build the most attractive lifestyle possible.

If you ever want to talk to someone in a similar situation feel free to PM me 8)


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The crazy and equally dumb thing to think is you're an afc coming out of a ltr. Basically you've had three years training in escalation, fuckking and talking to girls. Apply what you've learned instead of learning MM which will give you a major downfall.


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try the following,

part 1) COLLECTING NUMBERS

go out 4+ days a week, make a goal to approach a minimum of 5 girls, and a target of 30, anything over that is just a bonus and you may approach as many girls as you want, but shoot for 30, and at bare minimum do 5 a day

the forumula for the ''method'' is as follows

approach girl, look her in the eye, soon as you lock eyes with her or get close enough, just say

excuse me, I know this is random but/I know this is sort of crazy but, you're (insert what you think of her appearance)

-really cute
-cute
-kinda cute
-hot
-a fucking smoke show
-sexy
-sexy as fuck
-so fucking sexy
-the hottest girl in the fucking world

and I want to get to know you/and I just saw you and had to meet you

then proceed to get to know them for the next two-ten minutes, see if they are cool, if they are not only hot but also awesome, make a list for yourself of qualities you want in a girlfriend or sex partner (depending on what you are seeking), figure out what it is you are seeking, and be utterly shameless about seeking that out, everytime you find something out about her that you like, let her know that you like that thing, and if she does something you don't like, tease her about it

when you know at least 5 cool things about her, ask her if she likes

-coffee
-movies
-sports
-any other activity you want her to comply to meeting up with you and doing

if she shows interest in that thing, just say cool, then pitch the date to her and have an excuse for why you have to go

-cool, I have to go here in a second, but you seem kind of cool, there is this starbucks on blah blah street, they make crazy good frappachinos, I would love to take you for a coffee next week
-cool, I have to go here in a second, but you seem really laid back and open, I love that, we should hang out next week and continue this
-cool, I have to go here in second, but you seem kind of cool, there is this rock climbing place on blah blah street, I would love to take you there and get to know you better while we climb (use what ever sporting place you want to take her on a date to, as long as she expresses interest in it)
-you get the ideas for the rest, the point is, drop a time constrait, sell a date

after she agrees to the date, pull out your phone, get her to put her number in, give her a missed call (so you know it is a real number, do it in front of her), if she asks why you are calling it, just say, now you have my number so you know it is me when I call,

part 2) SCREENING
now with all these interactions your goal is to end up having sex, not to get a specific girl, if all you are concerned with is 9s and 10s, absolutely not a problem, the simple solution is approach 9s and 10s and do exactly the same thing and screen them the same as all the rest of the girls, when you are in your interaction you want to keep it short and sweet and not try to hard, you are actually looking for rejections and welcoming them, because a girl saying no to you in the first 5 minutes is a hell of a lot better then you chasing her for 2 weeks only to get a no when you're trying to fuck her after a long road of hard work, don't invest in girls that have not shown investment in you first, give as little effort as possible until the girl reciprocates interest and returns some effort for your effort (approaching her), and remember if things are not going well, you can just walk the fuck away at any time, you don't even have to keep talking to her

the compliace you will be looking for is

-will she talk to you about herself after the soi and open (will she fall into your frame and give you the compliance you requested ''I want to get to know you'')

-will she be alone with you (does she meet up with you on the date you proposed after the number close, or does she flake, 3x flakes in a row, move her into time waster category)

-will she let you touch her in a meaningfull way

I suggest getting a smart phone, and managing all your cold approach numbers into folders, two folders, 1)CUTIE PIES and 2)TIME WASTERS

if she meets the compliance of the above 3 tests, then she goes into cutie pies, if she does not give all 3 levels of compliance, place her into time wasters

part 3) THE FOLLOW UP
now that you understand how to sort out girls, it is important that you carry the momentum of your cold approaches as soon as possible, once again I suggest getting a smart phone (most of them can text unlimited people at the same time, and I know mine can simply text a whole folder makes mass texting super easy),

when you are done your daily sarge, just send out a mass text, start off with

-Hey it's (your name), it was really amazing meeting you today, you turned my day into an amazing adventure :)

or anything similar you want to come up with, doesn't really matter, you are just furthering the interaction,

before you organise your numbers into cutie pies and time wasters, start a conversation with as many girls as you can to start screening them down, build rapport over text with the girls for 1-2 days, solidifying dates, over the phone set out exact days and places to go for dates and practise just texting and having conversation and making them flow see what works for you and what doesn't

after the rapport has been built for 1-2 days, you will have an idea of what category the girls fit in to, past the 2 days text the time wasters one time every 2weeks-month, with random rapport then an invite out to do something, text the cutie pies, 1-2 times a week with random rapport and meetup,

always try to further things towards meeting up in person, if a cutie pie flakes 3x in a row, move her to time wasters

part 4) THE HANG OUT

when girls meet you for dates, all you want to do is continue where you left off, and establish more meaningful touching, hold her hand, and always try for a kiss at some point during the first date, continue getting to know her and try to have fun, some dates will go amazing, some will go to shit, always ask them back to your place at the end of the date if things are going well, just offer up some plausible deniability and seed what you are doing (basically talk up a reason to go back to your house early in the date weather it be this amazing song she has to hear, or if she has ever seen xyz movie, or does has she ever tried blah blah wine, etc. etc.) once the seed is planted, you can proceed to try to lure her to the proper logistics for you to close her, dates are just a comfort gap to bridge her to the proper logistics

part 5) THE END GAME
once you have the proper logistics (if you have enough numbers to play, you can start by just making the date a movie at your house), then all you are trying to do is escalate and sexualize the interaction, at this point it is basically an unspoken agreement that you guys are hanging out to fool around, just assume so, she wouldn't be at your place if she wasn't interest, expect at least some form of resistance, but reckognize it for what it is... resistance

make out with her, feel her up, start taking off your clothes, then start taking off her clothes, keep heating her up as you progress, take your time, the better and longer the foreplay the less hardcore the resistance will be, let her get comfortable with being physical with you, don't judge her, remain indifferent to having sex with her or not, but be persistant in foreplay, if she keeps having little freak outs just take breaks and watch a movie or something and when you think she is probably over it, just resume forplay and keep escalating

GOOD LUCK

if you notice any patterns of things happening that are fucking you up, come onto the forum and post them in the sticking points section, but if it is not a pattern you are noticing usually the answer is just, go out and get more numbers/talk to more girls


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