is asking this question a definate no go? on one hand it shows that you care if she's single for good reasons but then again it shows that u care if she's single which could then raise her dhv and lower yours

should i just wait to see if she brings it up then hit her with a bf destroyer and if she dont bring it up then its all good?

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if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got

Never ask that. That is AFC thing to say. If you are a PUA, you don`t care if she has a boyfriend. If your game is good, even if she has one, she wan`t bring it up.

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I know something David D says, is that is all about how you ask it. Coming straight out and asking do you have a b/f is very AFC. Though it is hard to convey in words you have to ask it in a more inquisitive way. That is, asking. "Are you single?" But as you ask this, try an upward inflection of your voice at the end of it. The way you're asking this, is like she did something wrong and you're trying to get to the bottom of it.

Lol I know it may be hard to understand but listen to DYD dvd and he explains it better in person. But personally I think it is a bit of a DLV asking this because it is almost like you are getting her permission to talk further with her.

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Arise Chicken, Arise

im no pua im still halfway between pua and afc

ask her for an opinion on somthing like your shirt would she buy it for her boyfriend
yes/no or i dont have a boyfriend (dlv for her)
if she has one neg or dhv follow up with a bf destroyer

say it innoently enough and youll get away with almost anything
i never field tested this but sum1 did use it on my sister and had sucsess

yeah I usually wait for her to do/say something stupid and then use something to the effect of...

"wow... no wonder your bf doesn't come out with you"
"hmm... so this is why you're single?"
" ... your bf must hate that about you"

I do the same as B ROB,it is very efective and if she does have a BF I ussually get stuck and fail.But that is ok I am lossing the AFC life and soon will be able to use BF destroyers with ease.

But before I can use those I have to get over the AA I get all the time

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Ich leibe deutchland!!! but glad to finally be back home in Nashville!!

I agree... that's my approach to things...

Women see right through this shit man. They know you are trying to find out if they have a boyfriend without indirectly asking them. They'll then at that point think you have low self confidence/esteem to have the balls to come out and ask.

Plain and simple, just don't ask. She'll let you know (or not if your game is tight).

Never ask if she has or does not have a boyfriend. But if it does come up, be prepared to handle it.

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Say goodnight to the bad guy! Come on. The last time you gonna see a bad guy like this again, let me tell you. Come on.

Make way for the bad guy. There's a bad guy comin' through! Betta get outta his way!

I dont know if anyone mentioned this before but never ask lol.

If she mentions problems with her bf, or doesnt mention a bf all together thats a good sign.
If shes eager to talk about her bf or says all kinds of good things about him, I would move on.

The other night went clubbing with my friends, and along with my usual friends there was a HB7.5, so I asked my friend to introduce us, he didnt so I pushed him aside and got my friends gf to do it.
I think I asked 3 of my friends her situation I got a "yes/no/its complicated" to having a bf.
At the end of the night I got her phone number and no mention of any bf.

I would avoid any mention of bfs and I was prepared to counter if she said I have a bf.

I would counter by saying "What your bf doesnt let you hang out with any other guys?" or "Who says I was asking you out?"

Right now im just worried that she doesnt pull a Seinfeld and while we are hanging out, if things dont go that well she will mention she has a bf. Shouldnt be a problem except I still dont know if shes single hahaha.

If she mentions a BF in the first moments it could be a BS defence mechanism.

I stupidly used to ask chicks if they had a boyfriend, as a way of asking permission to persue them - total AFC!

Then again, if you know the chick is into you, it's just another way of showing her that your into her. I don't think asking this question is going to stale the deal...even though it could imply that your suspicious that she may be about to cheat on someone.

a girl asked me this question, convo went
her; "your hot"
me; "your hot too" (probably could have said something better here)
her; "dyou have a girlfriend?"
me; "no, dyou've a boyfriend?" (what else could I have said after that lead up!?)
her; "no" ... kisses me on cheek "I'll see you later?"

The problem with your bottom conversation is there is no Push/Pull. You pretty much told her she can have you at will. You have to play hard to get son or you're going to be stomped on.

a girl asked me this question, convo went
her; "your hot"
me; i know, thanks for noticing..lol (saying this funny)
her; "dyou have a girlfriend?"
me; "whoa..whoa baby. We just met, and now you are already getting personal this fast? (again, say it in a funny way)


She'll respond to your push/pull.

I can't tell you how many fucking girls I've had come up to me, and tell me I'm cute, I play along, and they end up flaking like a mother fucker. Trust me. Don't go along with the bullshit. Act alpha, what you did is still AFC.

For sure. Thing is I think I was acting cocky at least, because I knew she liked me....or at least acting cool in a way of being dry in my line delivery.

While were somewhat on the topic..

I had an interaction that went something like this.
HB: I can tell your a cool guy.
Me: Thanks, I can tell your smart.
HB: Why is that?
Me: Because you think im cool (laughing)

Good/Bad?

I like it. It's totally C/F.