My pick-up practice so far has been relatively simple and infrequent. I practice the basics and still have AA towards strangers. I've been getting by with my recurring WWBD (What Would Brad Do?) question when interacting with others. Yes... I mean Brad Pitt.

So, here is what's going on. I've just moved to a new city and am using a realtor (HB7 - Age, late 30's?) to locate a house for me to lease. We met for the first time today so that she could show me a potential lease - all the while, I did my best to apply what I've learned in PUA community. After viewing the property she kinoed a bit and she asked me if I'd like to grab a beer tomorrow.

Now, this chick is loaded with cash. She has a few businesses of her own, she is practices realty part time as a hobby, she is attending graduate school, she is known for being caught with celebrities from time to time and travels to other countries just to try out new foods for a food club she created.


Obviously my foot is more than in the door since what little I did relay to her about myself managed to get her to invite me out. But, what would you do to avoid buyers remorse? She obviously doesn't need an "alpha" role in the sense of a provider, she knows her status relative to mine. How can I play to this?

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"Let go of the world's boundaries and Hold On Tight to yourself. Fight your battles because your battles are worth winning. If you have a passion, love it. If you have a dream, chase it. If you have a vision, live it."

Keep doing whatever it is that attracted her to you in the first place. And don't get intimidated by all the things you just mentioned about her.

She wants to get fucked. Plain and simple, she is in her prime. In my experience these type of women, highly successful, career driven, workaholics, are always lacking a sex life. These type of women always give up dating and sex for the better of their career. It would seem as though it keeps them more driven. But! their always comes a time, when their success plateau's and they start to reach an age where they are losing their looks, they become sexually driven, but here's the thing, they don't really know how to go about it. So it's up to you to show her the way.

If I am correct about this particular woman, she will want you to be sexually aggressive, both with your words and especially in bed. She may not appear to need an alpha on the surface, but I can assure you it is her desire. Every woman at one point in their lives needs and want's to be dominated by a man, it's human nature. I suspect this is her time.

If you spend time with her over drinks, as the conversation flows, start to become sexual, see how it flows, if she shows interest, ramp it up.

Don't be shy, If you get her in bed, be dominant, be ultra alpha, she will thank you for it later.

I have chocked and threw around these type of women during sex and they could not get enough of it. On the second encounters it got even crazier. This is a commonality with self made power/wealth driven women. ( from my experience)

If this is all a little too much for you, then just play it by ear, but assume she wants sex and go from there.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Lockdown, you confirmed what I was planning on doing. Being myself, only confident and together.

Sexaddict911, I was careful not to ask her if a certain time was good for her and told her to meet me at 2 PM (Central Time, so you know the time frame I am working with).

I am most definitely excited to test the waters (hopefully I don't lose a realtor in the process) but just reading your post gave me the anxiety I feel with cold approaching. Though, I am no stranger to sex (due to oneitis and "gimmes" from previous, accidental drunken hookups), I have never escalated on purpose so to say. I'll see how our seating arrangement ends up and try to escalate kino and sexually from there.

So, again, what would you do? Should I show up first to try to grab a bar seat so that she has to sit by me? Or, is arriving early showing too much interest? If she shows up first and has a table should I sit next to her or avoid sitting across from her by moving her to a bar seat? Like I said, I've never really escalated and day game seems like a big leap for me.

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"Let go of the world's boundaries and Hold On Tight to yourself. Fight your battles because your battles are worth winning. If you have a passion, love it. If you have a dream, chase it. If you have a vision, live it."

Stop all of this unnecessary random thought. It's all irrelevant. Focus on her and your encounter. seating arrangements don't matter. day/night game doesn't matter. All that matters is you and her. Don't think about anything. Show up earlier, get a stiff drink into you. Focus on just building rapport. Getting to know her as a person only. See her as just a person you are hanging out with.

Don't think of game, don't think of what she will think, DONT THINK! Get comfortable hanging out with her, then follow her lead, start off slow, but be sure to take any opportunity you can to bring in sex or sexual tone. Basically see where she stands. If she responds well then ramp it up. Don't draw any conclusions or assumptions. The only assumption you should make is that she wants you and sex.

DONT THINK! JUST REACT! if the pace is going to slow for you, then you must dictate it.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Bingo

Bear... you're in a good place dude. She's in to you already, so continue to BE you. Guys start to fuck shit up when they start trying to second guess things. Just be the same dude you've been - don't wonder "Who was I?" and try to somehow replicate what you thought you were - just fucking go meet her! SexAddict's words ring true dude.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.