| numbers and kissing mean absolutely nothing, unless she is attracted to you, sexually available and the benefits for her outweigh the risks of meeting you (she is comfortable with the idea), if the above do not apply, nothing will become of a phone number, a phone number is simply a bridge to further the interaction
you can get phone numbers with a quick compliment and 2-5 minutes of getting to know her with an excuse for why you have to go and an offer for a date, the more you sell the date and get her to invest in the interaction, the more likely that the benefits outweigh the risks for her but you can really only effect how attracted she is by dressing better, hitting the gym, having better body language/tonality, being more confident on the inside, and being interesting and fun to talk to
when you are getting phone numbers during day game, give the girl a missed call after you close, if she asks you why, just say it is so she can have your number, also, get alot of number, I'm sure you realize by now alot of girls are willing to give up their numbers with little to no effort on your end, alot of girls prefer to give out their number or a fake number rather then blowing you out directly, because it is easier to just not answer or flake for them, then it is to say no
once you are ok with the idea that girls will reject you, make an effort to weed out the girls that are going to give you the run around so you can move on and collect more numbers, it's ok to collect numbers from time wasters as sometimes making a bunch of texting buddies can lead to some fun times, but if all you want is sex, then it is best to chase after girls that are interested in that end with you, rather then girls who can't do it, or don't want to, or are not sure, if you run into problems, the quickest solution always is talk to more girls, once you get the hang of it and don't fear the approach and the rejection, it is easy, it is like drinking water
when you are talking to a good 30 girls a day and you notice a pattern of the same thing happening over and over and over to you, post it in the sticking points section of the forum, there could be some minor tweaks that could tighten up your responses a bit and help mitigate your problem, but until you notice it is a pattern, you shouldn't worry about it, flakes will always happen, the best way to mitigate them is to work on yourself until you are at a point that girls want to see you again
GOOD LUCK
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