I work out at the gym most nights between 11 and 2, its usually only me my buddy, a few fat people, and some fighters n dedicated lifters.
Tonight an 8 strolled in and it seemed like she kept eyeing me. Then she came over near us and did some machine right by us real quick. Then whenever I went to get a drink shed walk over next to me.
I sorta thought it was in my head but then my buddy was like dude that chick keeps staring at you.

So she was obviously looking for me to initiate conversation but I didn't, cause I wasn't in q gaming mood or prepared to game and was focused on my work out. I do regret not approaching though because she was making it real easy, except she had headphones in.

So if I see her there again do you think me ignoring her the first night will play out in my favor? Maybe shel wonder why I didn't approach and want me more when I do? Or is she gonna not be as interested

she probably wont be interested at all, but the best way is to approach her immediately and find out.

3-second rule bud....

It's hit or miss after that...

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Still very good chance that she will be interested, actually great chances. Imagine yourself - if you like a girl would you like her the next day you see her? Most likely yes. You just have to aproach somehow.

this is not equivalent between the sexes. Woman are emotional creatures and loose interest much faster then guys do if you haven't built any emotional connection

spoken like a true g.

Il shut all 0f you up I bet she's interested I'm gonna approach next time I see her

Might be, but I talk from experience. There were many girls showing me interest in a similar way (I was not interested so I did not aproach) and they all did it for way longer than one day. They lost interest at one point or another but not a single one after just one day of me ignoring them.

LOL, Attraction must only last the hr you see each other. Come on man, that is ridiculous. I still want to fuck some girls from 5 years ago, and some girls still want to fuck me from 5 years ago. Attraction doesn't go away all of a sudden, it doesn't work like that. She may not want your nuts ridiculously but it's not like there aren't women out there attracted to men they have only talked to once(or not at all).

From the sound of the amount of overtures and the obvious interest she will still be interested, he can fuck it up but she is still interested. Connections last longer than small initial attraction but they can still go away. Strong attraction (such as staring), multiple overtures, and repeated exposure doesn't normally(at all) go away after seeing someone once.

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Who gives a fuck if she's interested or not or if she will be interested or she won't be interested or if she was interested or she wasn.. Fuck that bullshit pussy ass crying can I take a cookie mom crap. What's this kind of attitude, is it ok if I approach her? You a pussy?


SPARTAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANS, WHAT IS YOUR PROFESSION?

Ummmhmmm......

What, you are stuttering now as well? Not gonna end up good.

Idk what your ranting about man

What you should be doing is doing what you want to do, and that is approach her and take her out somewhere and whatever.

What you are doing is acting like a pussy... Like a female that's not confident in her looks and sexiness "what, doesn't he like me? will he reject me if i ask him" bla bla bullshit. You're over analyzing whether she likes you or not, if she's interested, and how much interested and if she's gonna be interested the next time and have you fucked up for not approaching her right then and there.

What is all this crap?

INSECURITY

And female are trained to notice it. And will notice it if you don't start behaving the othar way, the right way.

And that way is not giving the fuck, not worrying if she finds you attractive or if she will find you attractive or if you fucked up with your prior behavior AND ANY OF THAT CRAP, and concentrate on doing what you wanna do and doing it the right way. The way your behaving right now about her is just like a female, and female don't wanna sleep with other females, they want a man in their bad.

In other words stop acting like a pregnant women posting on an internet forum about her issues cause that's making a bitch out of you, and grab your balls and put them back in their spot.

Do you realize now what I am "ranting" about? You are breeding insecurity on yourself. You're punishing your own self. Stop doing it. It's always great to improve yourself and work on it, but worrying about whether she was attracted or not to you in order to approach her is GIRLISH BEHAVIOR.

A confident man that women want will know that he is attractive and will approach women without doubt, and won't show fake confidence by being overly arrogant. Also that man will approach the women even if there is doubt that that particular women may not be attracted in him for whatever reason or coincidence that occurred. If that women rejects this man, he won't take it close to his heart, actually it won't effect him in ANY NEGATIVE WAY.

By what you are writing it sounds if actual rejection happened to you from this women you'd run to your room, jump on your bad, cover your head with a pillow and start shedding tears like a motherfucking bitch.

What I wanna say is grow the fuck up. Leave this girlish insecurity aside.

It's usually hard to that it's a few years work until you get confident in yourself with approaching woman, but sooner you start doing it the better.

If you get your shit together you might be landing women like this even in a months time.

I am not some great fucker of all times, but I approach women I want, and have a decent success with them.

This mindset you have is holding you back. I hope I was helpful and not a ranting offensive idiot on the internet.

Preach on!

I enjoy recycling through my retreads on occasion.

I just had a large commission last week - and I have a series of 3 sets of flowers being sent to 3 different chicks tomorrow. I've culled the herd down to 3, and was getting bored - time to change the dynamics a little...

I highly recommend it - especially if the highlight reels for some of the retreads were really good.

Good pussy is good pussy, and that attraction can last YEARS if you tap it properly at the onset.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.