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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 12:53 am 
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what are good ways to approach girls in a club?
I'm good at gaming girls i've already met at clubs but I've noticed I struggle when one of my female friends brings more of her girl friends and I just blank out and decide not to do anything because I don't know them..

I just decide not to go up to them, which I know is bad but I want to know what I should do.. I understand I need to get out of my 'comfort zone' but not sure how to because every night I go out, I do the same - not approach people I don't know.

if I present myself to them, I don't know what to talk to them about after.. I don't know what the are right things to say in a club SPAM.

I usually just go up to girls and start dancing with them but sometimes I feel the need to do more than that, I mean I like to get to know a girl too, not just dance with her.

what do you guys recommend to talk about/how to approach a girl you don't know in a club? especially if it's one of your friends buddies.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 1:46 am 
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Hey bro, im no pro but ill let you in on a few things that i'v picked up

Seriously..you dont even need to say anything and you can hook up with them and get a number

This is my usual thing i do when in a club
-dance with a bro (important to have bro so you arent just some creep by himself
-just have a good time/feel the music for a bit
-try and lookout for any girls giving you IOI ie looking at you
-once you see one your keen on thats giving you IOI move close to her but not too close
-she should move close to you so she's a couple of feet away
-keen on dancing and having a good time with your bro
usually at this point the girl should be "accidently" ass bumping into you or giving you huge IOI
-now you can either do one of two things
-straight up grab her by the waist and slowly and gentelly pull her into you for some sweet grinding action
-start dancing next to her so she knows your interested and just act silly or whatever you feel like

-now you should be grinding with her
-grind with her for a bit
-move your hands around near her thighs but not too close
-back to hands on hips
-spin her around so she's facing her and give her a nice smile and sorta lean in and whisper something sexy in her ears
-go back to her ass grinding against you
-do this for a bit
-now pull her towards you again
-lean in and place your forehead against hers and smile again or whatever you wanna do
-pull back to more face to face grinding
-now lean in and place your forehead against hers and get close to her mouth while tilting your head
-this can go two ways
-your making out (if this happens make sure your the one who pulls back first, should be only kissing for like 2 seconds)
-she declines you (if this happens brush it off and go back to more grinding and feeling her up till you feel shes ready)

-now spin her back to ass grinding and place your phone in her hand and she should put her phone number in it

I usually mess this bit up when trying to her back to my place and it varies on what i do from now but i usally try and talk with them outside or somewhere quieter

If you feel like your going to balls it up just tell her gotta meet your friends at another bar and she may wanna follow or not

My pull ratio is pretty shit from club game but its getting heaps better

Hope this helps bro

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 4:32 am 
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I dont know if this will help you out but on you tube there a chick that teaches how to approach a girl while dancing in the club or basically doing the showing value by knowing a thing or two more dance moves than the rest of guys that are just head bobbing and hoping to get some grinding action.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 5:09 am 
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You dont really need to be taught how to..you just feel it.

If she declines you..fuck it you've got many more sluts to hit on

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 5:53 am 
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Here is a video on how to approach women on the dance floor. This just covers the very basics, but it is great if you are not already on this level.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1fVpL7Je4Qc


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 6:09 am 
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You got tons of things going for you if its a female friend bringing her female friends you already have no fear of rejection you have tons to talk about build on the relationship she has with these girls.And a simple hey or cheers in a non confrontational way will test the waters with girls that are not known to you based on that reaction itself you can determine if they are approachable but you have to walk with authority remember you have no fear of rejection just saying hey.


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