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I know the library environment makes it a lot difficult to approach girls but the way i do it makes it easier for me. What you need to know is that usually eye contact for more 3 seconds is an IOI but to confirm that you need to smile and if she smiles back then you're in. Obviously you're not gona get up and go straight to her to start a convo because that will just make you look like an idiot lol. So the way i do it is by taking time and chances. If you know where she's sitting then after 20 mins go and sit next to her and say 'sorry if i didn't smile back at you and looked as if i was givin dirty looks, just too much work' instant girls response, 'haha no it's fine i understand, im the same bla bla bla' convo started. Then just take it from there and say 'i thought id take some break, so LET'S GO grab a cold drink'
Play it right and don't be nervous and they will come with you..
what if you aren't good looking, and then? i am not fat or obese, but i think i look good and have a good smile. but, won't that creep girls out if a guy is loooking at them and smiling. educate me everyone.
It's in confidence.
She doesn't know you. She has no idea who you are, or whom you will become.
YOU set that image to her. Your confidence, attitude, dress, demeanor, and facial expressions will tell her what she wants to know. PROJECT - self-reliance, confidence, positive attitude and SMILE.
When you approach her, if oyu follow the game - you'll show interest, then takeaway --- you'll measure compliance, but you'll control the excelation --- you'll make the opener, then drop the FTC and LEAVE --- Regardless of how you look (Love Drop who works with Mystery looks like a troll - but dude as MAD skill and can talk a woman's panties off in minutes...), YOU set that first impression - you don't allow her to set it.
Confidence to approach, funny opener, engaging question with an open-end response... Disarm her from thinking you're trying to fuck her... change her paradigm. make her think you won't stay long if you approach her -make her realize she was SINGLED OUT of the crowd, that's she's special... Neg her to take that away and infuse self-doubt. fluff quickly to get better intel on her, and number close right there - don't ASK for the number... Assume the close - "There's just not enough time right now, but I'm into you. You're pretty cool (neg - and shows you're not sold on her - a perfect contradiction to the whole "i'm into you" deal). I want to continue this... when's the bext time to call you?"
Then bouce. Wait ten minutes til she clears out and find another target and repeat the steps...
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