First of all, i'm brazilian guy so my english isn't that good.


There is a girl at college that i always looked to her, but i've never had talk to her because i had a girlfriend. But, about 3 months ago we broke up, and now i'd have my chance with that girl.

The problem is that i'm very shy, so even though i am single i didn't talk to her.
But about 1 month ago, i was at a college party and i was pretty drunk. Then i saw her and decided that was my chance and everything i can remember after it, is me kissing her.

But the thing is that i really want go out with her more times, but after that party, because of my timidity and because she is always with a lot of girlfriends that i don't know i've never talked to her again, greeted at most. Now i think she is really mad with me, but i also think that i can do something about cause i have the feeling that she is attracted to me.

So, the thing is that i need help to reverse the situation, cause i really don't know what to do now, cause i have the feeling that although she is attracted to me she want nothing more because of my behavior.

I just hope that you guys have understood what i meant.

Do you have her phone number? Are you friends with her on some sort of social networking site like Facebook?

If you made out with her at a party I would at LEAST try to see her again. Approach her, isolate her, and try for a recap.

You've gotta make an effort if you want something.

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Approach her Friends, make friends with her friends... Rathe than waiting till she's alone just go up to them and greet them. Talk to them about college.. After a while ask if you can speak to your chick and ask her to do something..


You will be surprised at the influence friends have over girls

I couldn't agree with this more. Having her friends on your side is just incredibly huge. Not only will they defend you and give you the benefit of the doubt if the two of you have an argument, but they'll also help ensure she doesn't do anything retarded like cheat on you.

You'll have to turn up the heat again. Be dominant and remember her about last time you kissed.

This is wrong, although it may be good to make friends with a girls friends to keep them from hating on you, all the other stuff is way off. Women are usually even more loyal then guys are with their friends. They will be the first to start hating on a guy the moment their friend does. They will always stay on the girls side, even if she is an idiot.

Most guys will forget what a girl did to their friend as soon as their friend is over it. And if she's hot they will try to fuck her themselves.

A girls friend will hold grudges for years and years for their friend. If you did her wrong. They never forget.

Trust me on this one, I've seen it too many times.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Just go up to her and say hello, ask her to have lunch with you. The more you avoid her, the more offended she will get. DO NOT try to make friends with her friends, she will only be offended by it. She will take it as a sign of dis-respect, that you could talk to her friends but not her.

The longer you wait, the more angry and confused it will make her, if she kissed you it means she is into you, unlike us men, women ( well most) don't go around kissing a bunch of guys, when they kiss someone they are usually emotionally invested in it. So the fact that you have not talked to her, is offending her.

All she is thinking is that you are an asshole. SO IT'S TIME TO BE A MAN! If you don't want her thinking bad about you, then go say hello. Tell her the truth, tell her that you are shy, and you were not ignoring her.

If you don't want to offend her, then you must talk to her.

Would you rather her think of you as a mean person, or a shy person?

Put your feelings and fears aside, talk to her, for her.....not for yourself.

If you are a good person, this should give you enough reason to have the courage to approach.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.