Ok so there's this cute girl in one of my university classes. For the past two classes I've sat about three seats down from her, although the other seats were open. I was going to approach but I saw that she had taken up 2 chairs with her bags and whatnot so I figured she wanted to be left alone. Some things I've noticed: I think she's noticed be glancing at her. Occasionally I'll look over at her and then look away and a few seconds later I can see her adjusting her hair out of the corner of my eye, I've heard if girls react after you look at them it's a good thing, but maybe that just applies to eye contact. I've tried seeing if she ever glances at me when I walk past, doesn't seem like it. Anyways I was thinking of approaching like this:
sitting down where she normally does and getting to class before her (she sits in the same area each class). Or should I approach after she sits down to show confidence? Also I have two options when I ask for her number: say I'm organizing a study group and i'll text/call her with details. Or just ask for her number without a reason. And should I ask for her number the first time I talk to her, do I look weak not approaching before? Thanks

you are still focusing on the one. sound so needy. You have to stop act like you are obses with her. If you want to talk to her, then go stop thinking about what if, what if, what if. You miss 100% of the shoot that you are not taking.

you also seem the nice guy type, just like me. But you need abaudance. That mean you have to start to talk to other girls at your university, do not focus your time on that 1 girl, you can not magic make a woman fell in love with you. You have to get to know her first so get your manhood together and go talk to her. Even if you scrus up. So what there is 100000000000 others. Start to talk with people you dont know, just going out for making new friends. Stop thinking that you talk to a girl, you must sleep with her after. You are just socialising like every one else.

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Ok first thing, take a deep breath... Good observation with the bag, you need to open on her soon though, isn't it week 5? You sound like your coming on a little bit strong with the staring at her.. Don't ask her to join a study group, that will equal friend zone.

Make your intentions clear, The best thing about a chick being in your class means there's a topic to talk about right there, you don't need to establish initial common ground.. I would start small, say hey. Ask how her course is.. Next week same thing, but expand on it next after class say l am going to get a beer at the Uni bar, you should come.. Word it like its not a question it's a statement.

But most of all mate, have a go.. Worse comes to worse you know her name, you do get a study group and you meet her friends to open.. Your that harmless guy friends with ????... Don't sit there staring just say hey...


Also sorry if my typing is off l am on my phone..

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Thanks for the advice, I'll try on Tuesday when I see her, wish me the best. Also, do I go for the number right away?

I would first concentrate on being interesting and working on speaking to her and striking up a good conversation... Wait till you do something else.. You don't need the number straight away