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Zolstice
PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 11:39 pm 
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Is it bad if the only reason why I try to get a girlfriend is because I never had one? I don't really know what love is but I told a girl I like her because I thought she was pretty good-looking.


We kissed and stuff but the weird part is that she says she feels like I got ulterior motives.
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Are you saying that you would not want a GF at this time if you had at least one before?
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Hell no, I would want to bang someone else.
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Is it bad if the only reason why I try to get a girlfriend is because I never had one? I don't really know what love is but I told a girl I like her because I thought she was pretty good-looking.


We kissed and stuff but the weird part is that she says she feels like I got ulterior motives.
how old are you?
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no its not bad. its COMPLETELY normal. I am in the same situation as you are and i am 21. and this is why i am here, to create luck in my life. hang in there.
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Hell no, I would want to bang someone else.
I mean "you want a GF because you want to bang someone" not "you want a GF because you never had one". Thread title implies that only reason you want a GF is that you never had one. Meaning that you would not want a new GF if you had at least one before :D
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It's not a bad reason unless you settle just to have a girlfriend.

When I was a virgin, which wasn't too long ago, I wanted to lose my virginity really badly to a HOT CHICK.

I'm 17 now and I could have lost it at 15, but I wanted to fuck a girl that I think is really hot, and not just some trashy slut.

Get your girlfriend, just make sure that you want HER and not the TITLE of boyfriend.

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It's not a bad reason unless you settle just to have a girlfriend.

When I was a virgin, which wasn't too long ago, I wanted to lose my virginity really badly to a HOT CHICK.

I'm 17 now and I could have lost it at 15, but I wanted to fuck a girl that I think is really hot, and not just some trashy slut.

Get your girlfriend, just make sure that you want HER and not the TITLE of boyfriend.
17?

They grow up so fast.....

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Having a GF is the BEST way to learn about relationships. You can't learn to drive a car by just reading about it without actually driving a car. :twisted:

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Hell no, I would want to bang someone else.
I mean "you want a GF because you want to bang someone" not "you want a GF because you never had one". Thread title implies that only reason you want a GF is that you never had one. Meaning that you would not want a new GF if you had at least one before :D
I mean...I don't really know what love is or if I truly have feelings for her, I just want to bang her and make her my GF because 1) I want to experience sex as much as possible and 2) I never had a girlfriend before so I want to experience what that's like as well. And that's the reason why I've been telling her I'm really into her...

Is that heartless of me to say that? I feel that's what she means when she told me she felt I had ulterior motives.
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Having a GF is the BEST way to learn about relationships. You can't learn to drive a car by just reading about it without actually driving a car. :twisted:


Yeah, just be sure to not jump into a relationship. Get a good girl who will do everything for you. Screen these girls for your 'ulterior motives'
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Having a GF is the BEST way to learn about relationships. You can't learn to drive a car by just reading about it without actually driving a car. :twisted:


Yeah, just be sure to not jump into a relationship. Get a good girl who will do everything for you. Screen these girls for your 'ulterior motives'
I agree. I treat them now as 'special friends' first before I treat one as an official girlfriend. I've learned my lessons the hard way. A good girl who will do everything for you is always better than one who gives the best blowjobs. :twisted:

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I'm 19, never had one either. I think I want one but then at the same time I think I'd be just as happy with dates every now and then. Which is what I'm working on.

But I actually just don't have time for a GF. My life is actually really fast moving and exciting (exciting with my "job", it's so epic I wouldn't call it a job) and a GF would hold me back.

So I guess I do want a GF too, but it's best if I didn't.

But yes, you're normal. And I think a lot of 15+ year olds get GFs just for sex.
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