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drichards2013
PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:35 am 
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There's this girl who I've been speaking to for a while now, and she just got out of a relationship.

She just left her ex like last week. He cheated on her two times, so I feel like it's still early for her to want to be in another relationship so soon. Nevertheless...

How do I kick it up and let her know "Hey, I want to be in a relationship with you."?

And when?
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There's this girl who I've been speaking to for a while now, and she just got out of a relationship.

She just left her ex like last week. He cheated on her two times, so I feel like it's still early for her to want to be in another relationship so soon. Nevertheless...

How do I kick it up and let her know "Hey, I want to be in a relationship with you."?

And when?
BIG difference.... do you want a relationship, or do you want to close her and see what happens after that?

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Step 1: Kiss her. (It's not too soon for her to kiss other guys, she's ready for that)
Step 2: Invite her on dates.
Step 3: Have sex with her.

Before you know it, you'll be in a relationship! Just don't say the word relationship at least until you've had sex with her.
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What do you mean by relationship here?

I'd strongly advise against a boyfriend/girlfriend exclusive type of thing right away, or you may well end up being the 'make him jealous rebound guy'.

By all means start banging her, and if that goes well for a month or two, and you feel like she's the one you want to be exclusive with, then maybe move things in that direction.
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Step 1: Kiss her. (It's not too soon for her to kiss other guys, she's ready for that)
Step 2: Invite her on dates.
Step 3: Have sex with her.

Before you know it, you'll be in a relationship! Just don't say the word relationship at least until you've had sex with her.

I forgot to mention that I'm in high school lol. But hey. Guess I've gotta escalate kino and kiss close very soon. Maybe tomorrow.
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you have to escalate, what that entails depends on the situation. But staying grounded in mundane average interactions will grant you all the success of an AFC.

Risk losing her forever, risk creepy, risk getting out of your comfort zone.
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I forgot to mention that I'm in high school lol. But hey. Guess I've gotta escalate kino and kiss close very soon. Maybe tomorrow.
I'm in high school too, a senior. PM me if you've got any questions.
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been there dozens of times.

if you want more than just sex then forget about it. if the relationship was anything serious then in 90% of the cases she wont be emotionally available, it will be a rebound at its best.

leave her in peace and hit her up in something like 3-6 months if you havent found someone else..
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