| Here we go...
I'm going to cut as much crap out of what I'm about to say as possible and just skip straight to the convo. I was on the subway the other day and saw this Indian HB 8 sitting across from me.
I used to try to use mystery method and a lot of other game techniques but now I'm kind of taking a Warren Buffet approach. I think a lot of the PUA's have mastered the art of seducing guys more than girls, their techniques are more religion than psychology. So if I can't visualize the guy a PUA is describing and find him attractive, I won't take the advice.
Anyway, I always smile at a girl before I approach and see if she smiles back. I don't break eye contact and she looks back again, starts giggling. The train stops and I get up as if I'm going to walk out, but this isn't my stop.
I walk over to her, she's fumbling with headphones:
ME: What are you listening to?
HB8: (British singer I haven't heard of but is apparently popular
She moves her bag over and clears a space for me, that was easy...ME:Who's that?
HB8: She's kind of like another singer I haven't heard of, you know who that is right?
ME: Oh yeah! Of course no idea who that is .
ME: Why are these British pop-bands so popular all of a sudden?
HB8: I don't know, I guess there is just kind of a resurgence in them.
ME: I know, there was this big crowd of screaming girls outside of the clearchannel station across the street the other day. Some band called New Direction, apparently really popular. Heard of them?
HB8: No, I haven't. So I've got a question, you seem really young, how old are you they always say that.
ME: I'm 23, just graduated college and now I'm working. What, is that a problem?
HB8: Oh no, actually that's not so bad. I thought you were younger. It's kind of weird to have guys approach me on the train.
ME: Well, you smiled at me so I thought I'd say hi.
HB8: I just smiled because you smiled.
ME: Yeah, but then that means we have a connection. Well, let me rephrase, that means you're feeling what I'm feeling. At least at that moment.
HB8: I guess.
ME: I like those glasses, they say a lot about your personality.
HB8: Well thanks, I wear them a lot.
ME: Yeah, Dolce and Gobana, you must have spent a lot. So what do you do?
HB8: I'm a law student, third year.
ME: So minimum, you must be 25. What school?
HB8: I probably shouldn't say the school, TMI
ME: So that means you must get off in 4 stops.
HB8: Yeah, she bites her lip, I always look for that
ME: So what do you think about a guy who picks you up on the metro?
HB8: Well, it's different. It's never happened before.
ME: Well, if you met a guy on the metro would you consider talking to him again?
HB8: I dunno.
ME: maybe have lunch with him or something?
HB8: Hmmm, why don't you find out?
ME: Why don't I?
HB8: Gives me her number, then disembarks
ME: Bye
HB8: Bye
So consider me old school, but I'm just polite, genuinely interested, and observant. That's a DHV in and of itself in my opinion. I want the girl to feel like she should go out with me and bad if she blows me off.
I called her and she postponed making a decision because of some friend she was supposed to meet on the day I suggested, Saturday. She told me to call her later, so I guess I will. Probably tonight, any suggestions?
When I called the convo went something like this:
ME: Hey, its me, the guy from the train. Remember?
HB8: Yeah, I remember you. Of course.
ME: Oh, well of course, how are things?
HB8: Ok, I'm just studying. So do you have anything specific you want to ask me because I'm kinda busy.
ME: Well, I was having kind of a bad day and you made things a lot better so I figure I owe you something.
HB8: Oh, you don't owe me anything.
ME: I feel like I do, so why don't you meet me at this one Mexican place. First martini's on me I kinda meant pina colada
HB8: When?
ME: How about this Saturday?
HB8: Well, I'm meeting some friends from out of town and I don't know what's up with them. So why don't you call me later on?
ME: Alright then.
Clearly Saturday is not going to work so I've got to change the time, I've got to get her to tell me what her availability is without asking somehow. I'm also thinking how I can sound like I was really anxious to call back and hoping we could do something. When I actually only half care because I'm already dating three girls, well two steady and then one when I'm kinda bored.
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