I just wanted to spit about my game for like to paragraphs, see what you guys think and see if you guys can suggest some routines or vids or things for me.

So i've known PU since July 2010, the turn of my 21st birthday. Since then i've learned all about indirect and direct PU. I immediately went into feild and broke night game up night by night so first night I just opened, then a week later I opened and transitioned, then the night night I locked in blah blah blah. after a few months I got number closes, K closes and I even banged my 3 year oneitus in a pub toilet for fun.

As for right now in 2012 well it's alot different, I've done all the night game PU stuff and in my local club all the bar staff know me, the regulars do and I seem to have catch up conversations with alot of them while i'm there. I tend to only open 2 or 3 women a night but a close isn't the main aim it's just to have fun at this point.

As for day game well i've only just started to give that a try lately. Since Christmas I decided to develop a pattern during the day that wasn't Wake up - PU vids & gaming - work - bed/go out. So I took up a light work out to start the day to shrink the beer gutt and I walked to work instead of driving a bit earlier than usual. I have a starbucks an hour before work and i've gotten to know all the staff their and I find that other people that use starbucks are more friendly towards me because i'm giving off social proof in day light.

Tonight is a Monday (the day I'm posting this) and i'm off to one of my local bars to do a pub quiz with a few friends (HB8, HB9 and 2 of my good dude friends, one of them is the PUA that got me into PU) just for a chill, a catch up and a laugh really.

I haven't had a girlfriend, I've always seen them as a anchor on a life and i've never gone after a girl to get tied down. But deep down I realize i'm 23, I like the idea of steady sex and I want to now transition to a dude in a relationship.

I know that was pretty long but what do you guys and gals think?

Morning mate,

I'm in Cardiff if you ever want a wing to sarge with some time.

If I'm reading you right then you want advice on how to move into a relationship from casual 'for fun' pick-up?

If so, the following thoughts come to mind, in no particular order -

*Make yourself the kind of person who would be good to be in a relationship with. Inner game, your physical appearance, the kind of character traits that girls value in a relationship - work on all that.

*Decide who you want to be in a relationship with, or if not a specific person, the specific type of person. Knowing exactly what you want gives you something to work with when it comes to qualification.

I don't know if that's the kind of advice you were looking for, if it isn't ask for something specific and I'm more than happy to try help

I get what you mean and that helps a little. I've worked on my appearance ever since I learned about PU and it helps. I think I just need to find and area that appeals to me hobby wise and see from common interests there.

What's your favourite clubs and chill spots in Cardiff? I was there last Saturday, went to Soda Bar... it was awful

Yeah definitely working out your true passions and interests in life will give you congruence and allow you to DHV as well as creating some report through qualification.

Soda is always too crowded whenever I go there and is like a wannabe TOWIE type of place.

Glam is the best pickup spot I've found here so far, spacious, got locations to bounce chicks around the club, spacious roof terrace smoking area, all that good stuff

Live Lounge is also decent, as everyone heads there after their first club, so people are usually tipsy and up for a good time.

Anywhere else good in South Wales for pickup?

Hey guys, I'm also near Cardiff. More towards Merthyr Tydfil/Pontypridd

Live lounge is good to chill out for cocktails. The bartender there Matt I think his name is has some serious game! Just go there and watch him and all the women drool over him. Respect to that dude.

Another cool place is gassy jacks in Cathays. Nice environment there to take a date, but not really somewhere to pull

I really love the SPAM in Live Lounge even on their off days like Tuesdays. I have a PUA friend who plays accoustic so whenever he goes to a new venue I pretend i'm his manager and tag along for free.

Glam is special to me, It was one the first proper venues I ran PU for the first time but Clwb Ifor Bach is my favourite club simply because it's three floors of awesome.

If you guys are ever in Newport on a Saturday for any reason there are 2 places to go... Start in Kama lounge because that's where all the talent starts and it's chilled and make sure you end your night in Meze. Aaron the DJ is a good friend and he always plays the classics to get people in a great mood.

PU in south wales is really picking up. I actually met another in training PUA out about a month ago and if I see him in a set and in trouble I help out, it's great when that happens.

A south wales sarging night could be fun sometime over the summer

that it could be, i'm winging about e different aspiring PUA's at the min.

Let's make it happen!

I want to check out Peppermint on a Wednesday in Cardiff at some point, Rock Paper Scissor night looks awesome.