And also game other girls. If you are analyzing your interactions with one girl, you're not actually gaming other ones.

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yeah man ive actually been noticing other girls checking me out, mimicking body movements and looking at me from across the room lol working on a few for each class of the day !

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Im just curious what you want. Frienship sex or love?

Friendship I thnk you already have. The question is if you want sex, a sexual partner? or love or a life partner?

well i wanna fuck the shit out of her obviously but i would also like a relationship first cause she's not easy so ye a love i guess

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I think you are investing way too much in her, and that is a real turnoff.

Act like you are the prize and reframe your attitude about her.

as for you mentioning you weren't acting like alpha you were right.


and seriously, keep gaming other girls. you might find another amazing personalities out there.


hope this helps.

-Oxy

thanks man, and no im not investing too much time in her! Its just that she is alot more complicated than the others, but i like her the most and i dont wanna miss my chance on her so im trying to play things perfectly so i have the best chances! im still working on others though but there in different situations that i dont feel the need to post about for help. but anyways, next time how should i act? i have seen this girl once since my last update and she showed:


- slight hair preening
- eyes dropping down as soon as she saw me and then back at me & down again,
- a slight smile
- hand/wrist waving gesture

im seeing her on friday, gonna go in confident as fuck, anyone know some stuff i should do/say to impress her or whatever

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Investing too much was referred to you investing alot more than her into your interactions.

Leading is good but being needy is a real turnoff.


STOP giving her so much attention, it does the opposite.

Thinking she is more complicated than all other women and wanting things to go PERFECTLY, just so you have a chance with her ARE FUCKING SIGNS OF OVERINVESTING. You're just arguing against solid advice that contradicts your desires. You can't post about one girl, because the answer is always the same: to game others. You have already lost this one because you feel the need to impress her, yet you wont' listen to anyone until you've been hurt.

Fine, go do it. I will suggest that people not post here because you only want advice that assumes you are correct in your assumptions about her and your, wrong may i mention, basic ideas.

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i am working on other girls but this girl is different because i knew her before And the reason im asking for all this advice is because i dont want to come off as needy, and im not so far. I was before 2 weeks ago but now Im playing the game alot better. She is just harder to game than other girls and its annoying. I've been taking everyones advice and have been working on other girls, and i do have a basic understanding of them and how im doing because i act better around them and they are easier to read, but with this girl im pretty clueless. Thanks though !
Ofcourse I'm going for other girls too but i still want her most! I know i am over analyzing her but since im in such an awkward position I am hesitant to make certain moves or approaches and blowing it. Also, sorry for not necessarily agreeing with anyones advice if it agrees with me being correct! I am taking everyones advice but when i write sentences i kinda just talk about myself instead (cant help it lol), and half the comments in this thread are just random tbh


But what do you think I should do to get this girl? cause you do seem to know what your talking about and have a good opinion. i do overinvest but i only invest time on her when im at home and unfortunately i live in a town where i dont know anybody (20 minutes from my school, i just moved here 2 yrs ago) so im dedicating my time to reading women and this girl specifically so i can get laid as opposed to jerking off and doing homework LOL. at school i dont go out of my way to look for her or anything, all girls are in the equal playing field. but when im home i like to look at my situation and work on it for the next day so i can make the best moves

what ive got so far (and been doing)

- dont try to impress her
- dont be needy to talk to her
- be confident around her
- treating her like every other girl and not special (this is my next step)

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It'd probably be better to just let this one go. It's hard I know, but if you've once been "best friends" there is almost no way back.

Don't even bother sitting around analysing every single gesture she makes, mostly it doesn't matter. I was friendzoned with a girl who was crazy with the kino and it drove me nuts until eventually I had the sense to just drop it and move on.

Stop thinking she is special! She isn't. There are so many amazing women out there. You have rose tinted glasses on my friend.

this is good advice, i hope im not stuck in the friendzone. im definately gonna stop anaylzing gestures too much LOL but i have really bad memory, idk if it has anything to do with smoking lots of weed but if i write down what i notice i feel ill be more confident knowing that she is somewhat interested

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I think you should stop obsessing over her and move on. It'll be better for you. Constantly chasing this one girl will have a negative effect emotionally and will also screw it up for you when gaming other girls.

Even if eventually you do get her, you run the risk of severe jealousy and possessiveness just because you've invested so much in the chase.

good call good call. it kinda sucks though because we actually had chemistry in personality mostly.. like she's obviously attractive but we think about the same things, months ago she even said i was like a "guy version of her" when we talked all day. so id be a happy motherfucker if i dated her... and if i banged her id be fuckin thrilled! so ill kinda always like her... but yea im working on othergirls right now. still looking for pointers and tips on how to get her though! not more people sayin i shouldnt go for her cause i am obviously but im not gonna be trying nearly as hard as before (as i stated above)

thanks !

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Act more alpha, push/pull her WAY more than you are, and stop always being the first one to text her. Make it known to her you have other options. DHV your ASS off bro!

i dont text her at all man! and can you recommend some good techniques?

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