The girl I'm seeing...is my first ever.

First date, first kiss...

Because of that, I have gave to her too much power, I compliment her. I tell her I really like her want to be with her. Now her ex is beginning to talk to her again, she is torn between me and him. The reason she said she didn't want to get with me immediately was because she was still trying to get over him.

I know I should be the bigger man and just walk away but she's important to me...what should I do?

Be willing to walk away and game other girls. Don't get all needy and beg her.

Game other girls, cuz this one is lying to you. If a girl wants to date you, she'll date you. What she wants to do is string you along so that if things dont' work with the other guy, she can go to you. I dunno about you, but bein a benchwarmer pisses me off.

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These hos ain't loyal

Why do anything different than what you did that got her attracted to you in the first place.

The more clingy you are the faster she is going to run back to her ex.

Ever used the word 'OK' - Its a classic word try using it every time she mentions her dilemma or talks about her ex. Dont add anything before or after it. Just say 'OK'. She has to figure out who is wants to be with, all that you can do is be your best self and continue with your seduction or whatever stage you are at with her.

eg.

Girl: I like My ex and I like you too but he is ......and you are.... blah blah

You: OK

Girl: what? all you have to say is Ok.

You: Yeah OK?

Girl: I should get back with him, you dont care about me blah blah blah.....

You: Ok

Dude, DHV yourself.

Make it known you're not a consolation prize - or a 'decision' she has to make. I'd say it just like that. I'd not add anything else. That statement alone makes it clear. After that, you'll know. If she runs to you - get the mileage, at some point neg her about it. Put the exclamation point on the fact you aren't someone to be left.

If she doesn't come back, chalk it up to experience, re-live the highlight reel in your dome, run MAD game on hundreds of sets, slay hood rats, practice and get GOOD. Soon, you won't give a shit, and you'll slay pussy as if you were trying to be like Chamberlain.

....and if through this process you start to get pissed, and don't really think you'll allow her to even HAVE the choice - end it swift and take the high road.

Good luck, let us know what you decide and how it goes... this helps others tremendously.

I'm a stat-geek. I read everyone's perspectives voraciously just to find anything I can use to confirm/improve my own game. If your game doesn't grow... neither will you.

Rodeo.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Never allow yourself to be second best and the way you act and the things you say need to reflect that.

If she's not willing to commit to you right now, don't commit to her either. Sarge, get numbers, play the field. It will make you way more likely to appear attractive to the girl you are into and at the same time will give you a lot of backup options if need be.