Thanks guys. :) I'm going to encourage her to go out more and more.

I want to be put to the test again and again.

I want to be made stronger so that I'll never worry about it.
This has been a step in the right direction. :)

Have sex with her before she goes to the club.

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I hate these clubbing girls. I used to go out alot just because my ex was going out alot so i could fuck her at the end of the night and know that she was alright. The one time that I didn't go out I went to see her before and gave her a surprise kiss, she loved it... we were planning on having wild sex the next day as I had work to be done that night. I walked out of the door thinking "wow i can trust her"

4 hours later...she was being fucked like a dirty whore by some other guy.

And she never told me the truth. I found out off her flat mate the next day.

Anyway, while girls are in this party mode. Expect to walk away at any time and keep on going with you life. That's what I learnt.

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I must say i have to agree on this one.

When a girl is in love with you, she won't be concerned about clubbing OFTEN.

If she does it a lot indeed, think it over.

doesn't mather... had sex

"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough."

Yep. I'd go with that.

I think the solution is to just let her do what she's gunna do.

You can't change what she does and if you try to then you're gunna look really needy.

And be ready to move on if the worst comes to the worst. :)

Yeah.. but the "ready to move" part is so freacking hard. especially when you think she's the world to you

Ouch. Anyway, I feel you on the expecting to walk away part, it's necessary to keep yourself busy and strong and if the girl fucks up then you can fall back on your core lifestyle. The girl was just sharing and she is now X'ed.

I know man, my girlfriend meant the world to me but then I realised...

If she wasn't with me, then that would be my whole word GONE!

So with that thought in mind I began to let go of her a bit.
I took a step back and made sure I had an amazing world full of hobbies and intrests if she wasn't with me.

I'm a DJ, I'm a producer, I'm a graphic designer, I'm a graffiti artist, I love my friends and my family.

So I have all that to fall back on, should the worst come to the worst.
I doesn't mean I love her any less, it just means that I'm comfortable and in a better position.

Hey if she invited you to go with her, she isn't planning on anything bad, on the contrary, she wants her friends to see you, and for you to protect her from the others.
My GF actually says Im the first boyfriend her friends find attractive and like.. win the friends, and you will be loved!

She's out again tonight at a house party and I'm not even mad bruv.

did she invite you to it ?^^^

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Yeah, I was actually wondering what it means when she doesn't invite you.

I also want to know this, lol

Yeah she sure did.

I'm sure they'll come a time when she doesn't invite me.
When that comes I will make out like I don't care and that it's nothing. :)

I've been freezing her out today though because it's the 3rd week in a row she's cancelled out usual wednesday slot.

I thought that deserved some freezing out. Am I wrong?