| Bertsky, welcome to the forum.
For me, the texting line isn't working. I never ask a chick if she's angry at me. If she is - I've made her angry on purpose; by design.
If the target grows cold - I send this text: "Hey, wanna help me rob a bank?"
Regardless of her reply (and she'll reply), you then type "Seriously, I need an accomplice - you driving or shooting?"
From there, you have avenues of discussion. You can phase-shift and start down a sexual situation (riding/shooting....just go down that road)... Or you can simply re-instill your own worth. You become the random-fun-slightly cocky guy. This way, when she gets a text from you - you aren't the guy asking for approval - you're the guy who is always smiling, always fun and you don't give a fuck what she thinks... THAT's the guy you want to be, in my humble opinion.
Depending on the comment, most times, I simply smile at the 'loud bitch' (every bar has one) and ignore her. If she's hot, I'll whisper to her friends loudly and ask if she's always that way...then turn to her and say "But you're semi-cute, so it's all good" then smile at her. If it continues, you simply say she's losing the cuteness, and re-evaluate the set. If she's CB'ing that badly, weigh the success/failure and bounce if need be and re-target a new set.
My rule - I don't do drama, ever. Always fun - that's the point. If not, what are we doing? _________________ Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.
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