Hey, just been practicing C&F for some months, getting #s maybe 3 months. So I got this one chick texting me now, first time in my life I get the feeling of being chased by a woman, I'm the one telling her we gotta "take things slower", turning her down for dates to the movies, etc. I'm like, "No, let's do tea first, so we get to know each other".

Meanwhile there is another one I meet every so often in dance class, but she didn't come today, anyway, she is very ripe and I'm working on getting a 1st date with her, but as she wasn't in class today, I used stealth kino on another one I rather like.

It worked a charm, so as class ended I whispered if she is single, she said, "No" , but then added some ambiguous crap, so I just looked her straight and asked if she is in a monogamous relationship. She said "yeah, well...." and for the first time in my life I experienced 'intent with freedom from outcome', I was able to look her right in her eyes and say "I'm really glad for you" and actually mean it.

She responded with some humming and hawwing, trying to say she is not really happy, but I don't put my sausage in other guys oven, so no go there, but I feel so great about having taken action !

Before I would be regretting not having known how to make the shit happen, now, thanks to stealth and kino escalation, I have the key!