OK, so I realize that if you don’t undertake action, you run the risk of becoming mindfucked and acting too emotional. Same goes for looking up too much PUA info btw. However, I just want your suggestion on what’s the best thing I can do.

I am 21 currently in my first master year at a moderately large university. Now, in two of my courses, there is this Chinese girl who has, in my eyes, an incredible personality. Mind you, this is not an HB 8,9 or 10, more like a 7. Thing is, I’ve never really approached a girl PUA style, had a serious relationship, or did things like game, texting, Facebooking PUA style. In short, I never really managed to make a girl (except for two) really attracted to me.

I started communicating with her with the main intention of having a fun and enjoyable conversation. The conversation was flowing, I negged her a few times, but mainly focused on comforting and expressing my original personality. In the end, I felt like I had total frame control (I knew this from my very first conversation which made a girl attracted to me) and I asked her if she wanted to play frisbee in the park, to which she agreed (I had to ask her friend (female) out as well, but that was OK by me).

Now, eye contact, slight touching (mainly from her side) and non-serious conversations (in which I would joke with her but comfort her after that) and serious conversations (in which I would express my broad personality and interests) are the things that happen between us the last days. I know she’s comfortable around me.

What would you guys suggest I’d do? I’d go for letting her know (via sub communication) that I am interested in her alone and invite her over to my place.

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in the middle of a conversation she is enjoying:

you: are you dating anyone ?
her: no bla bla bla
you: *with a fun playful manner* why? is it because you are really fussy;)?
her: bla bla bla
you: ah yea i can see that about you lol. if i asked you to come out with me this weekend what would you say ?

if she gives a positive response you should be able to figure it out from there, if negative you can reply with something like "i didnt say i was going to ask you out lol" and plough on. its as simple or as complicated as we make it really.