I had to sit next to girl in my class because i did not have my book. We spoke and she laughs,smiles quiet friendly girl I even joked how she should teach me her language (shes Chinese btw) she told me i should teach her English. she is very friendly towards me she even helped me with the subject i texted her for help with homewrk and she called me and said she can meet me tomorrow morning before class to help me. She is always trying to help me but she keeps mentioning her bf even while on phone one of the 1st things she mentioned was she is with her b.f

Can someone tell me why she is mentioning her even thou i am not asking her and the times she mentions her does not make any sense.

chances are she is trying to make it clear she is sexually unavailable to you,

she has a boyfriend, and wants to be your friend, that is the way I see this situation,

girls that have boyfriends that want to have sex with you, usually avoid talking about it, and when they do talk about it, it is usually when you are escalating, it is like a defense mechanism so you don't try to escalate

you can try anyway if you want, but don't expect to much, usually girls with boyfriends are a waste of time, unless you don't know they have one, or know for reasons that have nothing to do with her dropping it on you every two seconds

the best you can do is just aknowledge you know, then change the subject, ignoring the fact

I've seen Youtube videos of a PUA talking to a girl that had a boyfriend, every time she mentioned him he would pretend to fall asleep and snore. They had sex the same night (he left his camera on in his bedroom lol).

But yes pretend she didn't even say it, don't even let her know you heard it. And if she's goes on and on and on pretend to fall asleep.

she aint interested in you bub, move on, don't be a creepo and keep pushing

Thanks guys. I am not pushing, I am not really interested in her. This is the 1st time i have faced this situation so had to ask. Even today she mentioned her bf like a 100 times. She even asked me if i have ag f and when i finally told her i dont she asked me why i dont.

try to have sex with her, maybe she just talks about her bf because that is the only thing in her life right now that she can think about,

just bring her to a spot where you can be alone, give her an excuse why to be there, then just try to make out with her and escalate things towards sex

some things to help you with resistance before it happens are

-you can keep secrets and like discreet people
-you won't judge her for what she does

you have to realise though doing this can risk losing her as a friend, but don't worry about it, if you like her just go for it,

your best chance is to take as much responsibility away from her as you can, once she is making out with you she has gone to far and probably will listen to juices flowing in her pants rather then the boyfriend in her mind, and feel guilty after the fact and rationalize that it was your fault,

that is your best bet, and you might as well give it a shot if you feel she is worth the shot, but you better get this attempted sooner rather then later, before you procrastonate and pysche yourself out

GOOD LUCK

Hey pumpington thank you so much for the answer. The thing is I wont do it because she helps me with my studies. If I lose her as a friend i will stuff up my exam for sure All i want to know was why is she mentioning this guy like nothing else exists on planet earth lol but yeah would stay away from her if I wana pass

Do not misinterpret polite and friendly gestures with signals of interest.

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