Hi.

Our race doesn't matter. It really doesn't. I know... I thought it did myself back when I was beginning to read this stuff, but it's really about you and nothing but you. When I first began my journey, I blamed my failure on my race. Living in America and being Asian, I know there's plenty of Asian women but I was attracted to Caucasian ones, and I've always put them on an non-existent pedestal.

To put this into perspective, I never had my first kiss and was a virgin until I got into college. I had low self-esteem because I was once rejected by an Asian girl. But I realized one day that I wasn't happy and it wasn't because of my inability to attract women, it was because I didn't enjoy life. I was letting the lack of success with women ruin my life.

So I changed myself. My personality, my looks, my priorities. I was no longer serious all the time but playful. My looks? I began wearing clothes fit for a king - me. My priorities? What I want to do, and what I care about.

Slowly but surely, my character became who I am. Women become more and more attracted to me. I had a girl who told me she didn't date black or asians. We went on several dates and she's my girlfriend now.

I feel that my story can be empowering to those who feel that race plays a big issue in attraction but it doesn't. She likes me for my confidence, my truthfulness...she likes me for who I am. That's all that it matters, you.

I hope my post helps you all.

The Tony Robbins convention is down the hall and to doors to the left, you've made a wrong turn. It's ok it happens.

It does matter IMO. You can get around it, but if one PUA used this anology:

When you see pictures of your parents when they were young, their clothes seem weird but to them it's perfectly normal because that's what they are used to.

If a white girl who has never had an asian friend at all and gets hit on by an asian guy she's going to have less comfort initially until she gets used to you.

I believe this guy, he's black in case you were wondering, because if a asian girl would hit on me (I'm white) I'd be less receptive at first.