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HB7- hey
HB7: ahahha
smh
oh nm plain a video game hub
idk some guy who can shoot electricity... Awesome.. I'd rather play pool lol!
idk where that is lol
oh no thus too far lol
like south side...eh oh wells
i was there lol
i was working it
nooo lol
sittin with my niece kinda why?
nah gonna sleep i think smh
so tired lol r u good at pool?
schwaahhattt? yeah i'll beat you smoof
like what
smmhhh
ookkkkay then what lol
read her responses the conversation is fairly one sided, you have to just figure out a way to get her invested better, or cut the conversations that suck out, don't be her texting buddy, if she is texting you up cause she is bored and not willing to put effort into a conversation, do you really want one with her? would you continue texting with a guy who sent this shit to you?
hey man, here are some ideas for you,
keep your texting more concise and to the point, don't use so many lol's and hahaha's, don't take back things you say, if you want to emphasise you are kidding, use emoticons, but seriously don't over do it, less is more, when you are asking questions, be less specific, start broad, if you are getting I DONNO LOL, then she is not very interested in investing into this conversation, questions that start with why or how, usually broden the range of answer she has to give, and locks her into the conversation more, when she won't answer the question, then she doesn't care about having the conversation, don't be needy at this point, better to push a girl away but remain persistant, think of how the girl is treating you in the conversation, focus on her personality and if you are liking her, not if she is liking you, if you feel like things from her end are lacking, just cut the conversation short, also if a girl seems to not be interested in rapport with you, you can stop seeking rapport and asking her question after question, and start just building rapport by yourself, using the rule of 1 text for 1 text, wait 24 hours if you have to before re-texting her again, just use statements instead of questions, and build a conversation, if she is interested in having one, she will write statements and questions back, rather then trying to get any investment on her end and having her just end up giving you dead end answers, the more she invests into the conversation, the more you can crack her open and go deeper
have a goal in mind, and don't hit on her over text if you haven't done so in person, if she doesn't like it, she will just go non-responsive,
try to just get her to meet you, if she is always busy or has excuses every time, then she is not available to you, and you should move on (usually means she isn't into you, or has other guys, and you are an option rather then a priority, this is a waste of time, better to find girls that actually like you, and are available)
other then that, keep practising, and when a girl tries to get you to prove yourself, don't fall into that trap, don't answer these questions seriously, best to just be ambiguous and bait girls into investing further into interactions with you
''so tired lol r u good at pool?''
-I donno, you are going to have to vs me and find out?
''how old are you?''
-guess
''what do you do for work?''
-I fight the homeless for money... but the pay sucks
what ever you say to questions where she is trying to figure out if you are ''good enough'' for her, just make her work harder to get the answers, but don't become obsessed with this, it is not that important, and you certainly can give people straight answers to their questions if the two of you are connecting, just realise the difference between genuine interest in you, and a person just trying to qualify you with shallow small talk
GOOD LUCK
CHAT
but lets bet on something 