Hi, My name is Scalvin and i just started my process on being an PUA. I live in Washington Near Seattle and i am 17 + Years old, Yes, I know i'm a young learner but it has brought me the social skills i have never been able to obtain.
I got into the game by having this constant thought and feeling of doubt that i am always shy around people. "GIRLS" in general! So what i did was search around for answers and here i am. Found "The Game" Reading it still, GREAT book! Gave me so much more too look at in life and towards women! I think differently now and i don't have any fear or intimidation upon them.
I have been studying the pickup for a few weeks so far, i have found that i can easily know when a girl has an IOI towards me. The art of pickup has so many wonders that it is wonderful to know.
I like to use the cat string theory the most as well as neg girls.
My hobbies are to build computers as well as networking. My main passion is Socializing and i have acquired that already.

Okay. My goals with being a PUA are simple, I need to be able to have pickup lines and conversation starters. I don't know of any and how to start talking with girls! I have that trouble of knowing what to start talking about. I don't have the fear to walk up and start talking to them, It's just the fact that i need conversation starters or pickup lines. I have been told that i need to just "Not Think" when approaching a girl, But that doesn't work well with me because i over-think an approach towards a girl. I really need help on that. But otherwise everything i am still learning.

As i walk down streets in a city, in a mall, down the halls at school, *anywhere. I can sense the girls around me and see them checking me out. It is truly and amazing feeling of AMOG.

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Scalvin - Socialization is the key to having a happy life.

My story sounds alot like yours my friend i started by reading the game and now here i am. Many months later i have reformed my ways and got skills i never had before and now im not nervous at around any girl. I still have so far to go but pick up is such an amazing thing its litterally so fun to learn another new aspect of it.

Good luck bro

It is really an amazing feeling of having the chance to talk to any girl of your desire. No more facing the intimidation of that specific or those "Girl's" that you want to talk to.
Before i knew anything about girls, I used to be shy around them and blush when i made a mistake while talking to them. I could not upfront them in anyway and i always let the "Girl" boss me around. But now that the "Game" has kicked in and i am on a roll on figure out these girl, things have really changed.

When you are with a girl, Or with girls, The main Key is to not think about them, but to still think of what you are talking about. Don't think at an emotional level where you get too carried away into your "Thoughts" and lead to over-thinking.

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Scalvin - Socialization is the key to having a happy life.

yeah it is an awesome feeling man, i used to look at all the girls i wish i could have a chance with and get the gut wrenching feeling that they would never choose me over other guys. I had the impression that nice guys finish last and so i went out of my way to be a asshole and even know i got a few girls it wasnt getting me anywhere still.

After finding out about the game it litterally changed my life and way of thinking. i got so much happier that i could confidently go up to the girls i always wanted to go up to and i actually could get somewhere with them. it started off as hook ups then foreplay and now i can go up and get all the way. Not every time of course im not a PUA yet but im well on my way.

The game is awesome

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Pick up is about being a great actor. Being a great actor is basically needing to be a liar. If you are a great liar you will make a great pick up artist.