Dude I think the point is An Alpha is the leader, everone is beneath them. I have a friend who would just put headphones on and keep the volume low enough he could hear but so it looked like he might not be able to. Not caring about your class??? So? I am not an Alpha in the least and i can do that and have done far worse. Still dont make me an Alpha.
Try acting above him. make him validate him self to you. (been working on this my self at work.) Let him do his shit and then come in and work the girls with your game and show them all who is the true Alpha.
Or sit on the internet crying to other guys on the internet about a neard who picks on the Alpha. What ever works for you.
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I don't have any ego, I do not brag. But lets put that aside. What I want to be is an Alpha Man, a strong one, and a real one. You said, you can teach me, I am willing to take any suggestions you can provide. I read that book, by John Alexander, how to be an alpha man, its not quite a good representative. What can I do to transform myself a powerful alpha man?

I'm an actual Alpha Male. If someone picks on me, I don't let it falter me. You're coming on here and insulting the kid. If I were to get in a situation where someone is insulting me, and it's affecting me, I might ask him to stop by saying "man, I feel really hurt when you insult me, please stop." And if he doesn't stop, tell the authorities. The key is to always give respect. The alpha male has so much respect for himself that he can give it away in even the most violent situations.

The point of being Alpha is being able to stay on your path regardless of interference of others. What is your fault here, is the fact that you're being taken off track. This is taking up your mental energy, and you're trying to figure out how to "get back" at this kid. Don't do anything man. Alpha males are challenged all the time. People HATE me at my school for being sexual; I call all the girls sexy, and everyone is like "oh he's creepy." In reality they're just scared of me.

What you can do to be an alpha male is train your emotions. Start accepting emotions like anger, jealousy, shame, etc. and just let them go through you. Do not act on them, simply let them pass. The alpha male feels everything all the time; he lives on the edge of life. People want to kill him for what he represents. And again, he pushes on anyway because his purpose requires him to do so.

Let see, you cop an attitude, got a huge ego, thin skin, constantly claim to be alpha, don't even know how to deal with an easy social situation. As far as being one for starters you can drop everything I list that doesn't make you alpha and go in the opposite direction.
Guess what he is wrong. You can talk about sex around girls. The key is knowing how and what to say and when.
Yes you do. You mention being alpha like 5 times in this thread alone. You get all wired up over some guy getting to you. You think you should have instant respect without earning it first.

I also bought John Alexander's book. It's 80% to 90% crap with just 20% to 10% substance. It's at best a paraphrase or derivative work of Carlos Xuma's earlier work. It's a waste of my time and money. He carried the definition and description of the Alpha Male too far. He was simply describing himself. Most of his descriptions have no scientific basis.

Scientifically speaking, being alpha is being first. It's a position in the social hierarchy. There are no scientific studies yet on the human alpha male but here's what researchers say when it comes to other primates that are closely related to the human species: http://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/4 ... 0681086871

Now, why is this beta male picking on and/or bullying you? It's because he thinks that you're the lowest guy in the social hierarchy of your class. He can't pick on the REAL alpha males in your class because he will be put in his proper place.

So how will you become a genuine alpha male? Exercise and eat right.

Exercising and eating right will boost your testosterone. Testosterone makes you more competitive, sexual, aggressive and it will define your muscles. When you become more competitive, you rise up the ranks and become FIRST.

When you become FIRST, you become alpha. The mental state, emotional state and attitudes of the genuine Alpha Male comes from being FIRST. But being first is temporary because another stronger male will challenge the Alpha Male and become first. When this challenger becomes FIRST, he becomes the Alpha Male. Yet the displaced alpha male will still retain some of the alpha male attributes.

Among humans, being an alpha male is contextual. For instance, who are the REAL alpha males in your class? These will be the Dean's Listers, the fraternity president (Grand Archon, Grand Whatever), the football or volleyball captain, the consistent topnotcher in exams, the gangsta leader, and so forth. But this is contextual. If you have a small class and there are no gangsta leaders in it, then the gangsta mascot will be the alpha male there.

Your fake "Alpha Male" attitude won't get you anywhere. On the other hand, testosterone will make you more competitive. When you're more competitive, you become first. When you become first, you become an Alpha Male.

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You don't talk about sex with women because you read it in a book? wow...

Your getting mad at a nerd? How is that alpha?

Did you recently have a thread saying you can't talk to anybody in a nice way, you're not social and you described yourself as a loner?

Real alpha.

You see you got answers in how to become an alpha male from variouos members of this form. The key point to being an alpha male is that you need to make yourself a natural leader. Be the person who will decide where the group is going and what you're going to do instead of being the one throwing suggestions.

Reading a book is useless, it's never gona help. Anyone can write a book but that doesn't mean if it worked for them that it is going to work for everyone else. You have to have your own personality, know what's right and what's wrong, be attractive and funny cocky. You need to make people laugh, it's the easiest way to win everyone over. Always be dominant in your group. Get yourself out in this real world and practise, you need to be on the field with a real PUA to get better. But whatever you learn always make sure you must put it into your own personality.


Good luck