Day 39 -
Just thought i'd share a couple of things i'm learning..
one 'compliance' - getting girls to do things (for you), it actually works.. it's about asserting your masculinity, and not coming across as weak.. even little things, if she wants you to do something for her, she needs to do something for you in return.. golden rule i'm learning...

and a quote i'd like to share from David Deida - The Way of the Superior Man

Your woman asks you for input, and you say, "whatever you do is fine with me.". This is the statement of a friend, not a lover. As friends, you want to treath each other fairly and give each other space and indepedence. As lovers, you and your woman are more than just friends. You are playing the full dynamic of masculine and feminine polarity. Wouldn't you like your woman to be a goddess and offfer you her feminine gifts? to eveoke them, you must offer her your masculine gifts.

We often make the mistake of trying to please girls, by making them make the decisions, but its a sign of weakness on our part, women (mostly), don't want weak men, they want us to make the decisions, in love anyway.. that's why we do the approaching, that's why we do the date suggesting etc etc. we take the lead, but don't give her the power to validate you.... it's all about being a Man.

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I came across this... so true
http://failblog.files.wordpress.com/201 ... ifying.jpg
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Ultimately, nothing ventured nothing gained... we won't pull if we don't try... and we worry so much about failing that we don't try..i was superhorny last month and must have spoken to perhaps 10-15 girls...well, i got a 'result', after 7 years, of course i changed, this site and wider reading has helped me a lot...
but ultimately, we have to venture =)

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awesome. keep updating bro

thanks for the love man -
here's something i have written on my whiteboard, thought i'd share with you guys.. i got it from somewhere but i forget where now!

" Most approaches don't fail because they reject you. They fail because you reject yourself. Because you approach without knowing your own worth. Without knowing with 100% certainty that you will get a warm response. And when you understand this, you will be free."

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Beauty needs a witness. Beauty must be invoked. This is where you come in. A woman enthralled or delighted or in love is always beautiful. And by magic, or perhaps design, a beautiful woman is the only thing that can make a man feel alive again

Day 51 -
Well i'm back..
haha, things have ended between me and relgirl...
we were playing things in a certain way, and well, she lost contact with me for over a week, and i found her behaviour disrespectful, because she didnt seem to care...
so yeah, anyway, because she didn't seem to care, i ended things with her...
highlight of our thing..
a beautiful walk by the riverside for a couple of miles in the late afternoon, when the sun shines just perfectly...
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i did a post-analysis with a friend, and basically she said that because relgirl was so stunning, she is USED to disrespecting guys and they are so desperate for her, they will put up with her shit... so she probably didn't get what i meant by respect etc lol, because thats how she normally treats guys... anyway, she needs to grow up, you get mature 18 year olds, she wasnt... she needs to learn to play the game too..
and without sounding arrogant, if there is one KEY thing i've learnt here, it is to have self-respect, and she didn't get that about me lol... it wasnt a tool i was using to get with her, i have it in me now...

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moving on to the next girl..
i shall name her 'CuteBr'.. i re-read my thread, i first made eyecontact with her day 13... we've been exchanging eye contact now and then... since then... but i thought she had figured out i was with relgirl so would have dropped her interest...
well she hasn't, and she's very easy on the eyes, i will say hello to her next time i see her... i wanted to respect my interaction with relgirl, so i didn't... well now i can..
i'm a bit excited, i need to remember some of the rules i've learnt again haha, like posture etc..
tomorrow's the day... hopefully, let's see how it goes down...

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Beauty needs a witness. Beauty must be invoked. This is where you come in. A woman enthralled or delighted or in love is always beautiful. And by magic, or perhaps design, a beautiful woman is the only thing that can make a man feel alive again

Day 52 -
Ugh, this is turning into a Soap Opera...
Relgirl took me not talking to her anymore and spent today shamelessly flirting with me.. and i won't lie, i flirtted back..and now i'm also emailing another girl my sis told me about...and she seems interesting..
ok life is getting complicated..
and i started today only wanting to talk to 'cutebr'

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Day 54 -
Ugh,
okay, as i am completely new at this, i have forgotten the complexities of being a 'player'.. i realised when i broke up with relgirl, only i thought it was a breakup, i.e. we didn't get physical, all we were doing for the last few weeks really was incredibly heavy flirting... and well, because i know with her, its flirting, no kissing etc, TILL marriage.. to be honest, i don't want that..so when i backed out.. i wanted that..
but when she came onto me again, i thought it was so pleasurable flirting with her again, i forgot.. i don't actually want to do it..

well, i want to talk to cutebr, problem is, both cutebr and relgirl sit similar places in the library, cutebr sees me talking to relgirl all the time.. i want to NOT flirt with relgirl (easier said than done), and basically flirt with cutebr, without offending either of them..
i think, i need to be very straight with relgirl, and say i see you as a friend, make sure cutebr sees my bodylanguage, and make a play with her..
this is driving me nuts..
(not because its a bad problem to have compared with 2 months ago, but because i have NO social capability of handling this without coming across as a sleaze bag, but you know...letting a girl down gently, i guess that is part of the 'Dark Arts' also...

ahh

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day 55 -
early post.. thought i'd just say i've sent a 'just friends' email to relgirl...
i just can't get over how gorgeous she is lol... but yeah, it had to be done...

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Hey guys, just thought i'd let you know i broke my 7 year duck a month or so back
I do have a gf, but things are dicey between me and her SPAM lol. so i thought i'd get back on here just to re-read my thread and pick myself up..
and to anyone wondering, yes, it was 7 years, just work at it and perservere, you can get there too!

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Alright guys im back =D

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I just thought i'd post here
Well i'm in a relationship - this site helped me a lot - i took the good, and left the bad.
i was looking for a committed relationship, and i found it =)
it's amazing after 7 years for things to change so completely!

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Beauty needs a witness. Beauty must be invoked. This is where you come in. A woman enthralled or delighted or in love is always beautiful. And by magic, or perhaps design, a beautiful woman is the only thing that can make a man feel alive again